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If Brits are obsessed with class and Americans are obsessed with race, what about everyone else?

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NutellaEllaElla · 09/04/2022 14:42

What about other countries? What are the French, Italians, Germans, South Africans, Chinese etc obsessed with? I'm guessing for Indians it's Caste?

I'm just curious!

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SilverSplitsTheBlue · 11/04/2022 03:32

I live in Argentina. They are obsessed with fútbol (River vs Boca mostly) and simultaneously slagging of their government whilst proudly insisting that Argentina is the best country in the world.

boronia · 11/04/2022 05:03

@Dishh very true about the wildlife!
Further north and in rural areas much more of an issue.
Even here in Melbourne metro I won't walk in long grass in high summer in case of snakes - and spiders don't bother me but I know a white tail and red back when I see them and avoid.

Deadivy · 13/04/2022 20:38

Italians are obsessed with their health and weight too. Every family meal I go to everyone discusses how many KG they weigh ( I keep silent being the overweight UK size 14-16 person in the room) and how fat so and so has become. It's also perfectly normal here to tell someone they are overweight to their face too.

They also are very temperature conscious, it's nearly 20 degrees here at the mo, everyone is still in winter coats, scarves ( for fear of death by cold air) although I confess I also feel the cold now after living here forever, we still have the heating on too.

Cleaning is high up there too, houses are spotless inside and scrubbed from top to bottom often. I see pillows and duvets hanging out of bedroom windows to be aired most mornings

As someone else mentioned, regional and cultural identity. the country is very much split between North and South too.

Food & Wine. My MIL asks every night to ask what we're eating ( yes DH calls his parents every day) I still haven't forgotten the day I bought my in-laws Champagne (Why have you give us French wine?) and Spanish oranges (why would I even consider buying foreign fruit?)

Lunch is a big thing every day & we go out as an extended family to eat every Saturday or Sunday lunchtime.

August. Yes the month, this is the time when everyone goes away. There aren't half terms here, so it's a big deal, many of my colleagues have the entire month off, schools get three months off. Businesses close for a couple of weeks too. The biggest bank holiday of the year is 15th August, so the week it falls in is the week most things are shut and it's the busiest & most expensive week for going away. As an Italian you'll either go to the Mountains, Sardinia, Calabria, Puglia or Sicily. No where else exists! Grin

iCouldSleepForAYear · 13/04/2022 21:05

@AlecTrevelyan006 that is hilarious! 🤣 I'll have to send that to my husband.

I think my head damn near exploded the day he said to me: "Aye, but then there's the Cup Winners Cup."

iCouldSleepForAYear · 13/04/2022 21:06

[quote Dishh]@iCouldSleepForAYear

American are obsessed with liberals and with people being liberal. We're either the anti-Christ or being ourselves badly. Everything from where you go shopping to Podunk town meeting politics has been filtered through this lens.

As an aside, did you know that in Australia the equivalent conservative (Republican) party is named the Liberal Party? Although it is the polar opposite of liberal?

Just an odd anecdote to throw at Conservative friends at parties Smile[/quote]
I did! And I can say personally, that information does not compute with the Fox News watching crowd.

iCouldSleepForAYear · 13/04/2022 21:13

@NutellaEllaElla

My impression from American TV is that they are completely obsessed with politics in general, Spaniards too actually.
This is correct from the American end. Sadly, the political is all too often personal (see family separation at the border policy and abortion restrictions as an example)
Sofuckingsad · 13/04/2022 21:15

She would ring me. “Do you remember Breda who was on the school committee with me in 1982? Oh you do. Breda? With the brother in the army? Her husband was a mechanic. Remember she used to wear that turquoise boiler suit and court shoes and we all thought it was a bit much. Do you remember her? Well, she’s dead.”

This is every conversation I have ever had with my Irish mother.

Charleyfox · 13/04/2022 21:49

Irish are obsessed with death. My Irish dad receives regular updates from his sister briefing him on who’s died in the town. She makes him guess who it is. He quite often gets it right too but never seems that arsed or surprised. It’s like a weekly roll call.

Cuck00soup · 13/04/2022 22:07

My Korean friend is obsessed with what a let down I am. She has spent years trying to get me into patterned clothes and high heels, only for me to turn up in jeans and boots again.

Re the plastic surgery, photo filtering is the next best option. My friend literally changes every single photo you take of her.

teekay88 · 13/04/2022 22:25

My family's part welsh - always seem very interested in other people's finances and general nosyness! Also seem to have an obsession with not so subtly pointing out that they think someone is overweight...

upinaballoon · 13/04/2022 23:28

I so enjoyed your post of 20.38 Deadivy. Do Italians still talk about the fegato?

oceanskye · 14/04/2022 06:06

I'm in NZ and everyone here is completely obsessed with property prices and has been for ages!

The newer obsession seems to be food prices. I can't go anywhere without someone wanting to talk about how much they just paid for a lettuce, and how much said lettuce would have cost in Australia. I was at a work function recently and a guy spent about 20 minutes explaining how he had worked out he could fly to London, buy a container worth of NZ lamb, ship it back to NZ, sell it here cheaper than the supermarkets, and still make profit!

Deadivy · 14/04/2022 07:07

@upinaballoon

I so enjoyed your post of 20.38 Deadivy. Do Italians still talk about the fegato?
@unpinaballoon. Oh yes, very much so. I never knew a nation could obsess over their livers so much!
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