My boyfriend of a year who I've been doing alot for has been sending sneaky messages to his ex. She started causing trouble when we got together. They stayed friends because somehow she was supporting him after the split. They both wanted different social lives and she was too busy to spend time with him. She dumped him when she got fed up of him texting another woman.
As soon as we got together she started saying stuff to try make me look not good enough. He was trying to manage us both and he's maintained that he finds it quite mature that they stayed friends.
He promised me he hadn't heard from her In months and the last month or so I've settled and felt our relationship had strengthened.
I saw a wattsapp message appear on his phone from her yesterday when he was in the bath. I opened the conversation because she had put several kisses and told him not to cry at their memories. Above thet comment he had called her affectionately by her surname and said how he was listening to a song they loved and crying at the memories. Told her to listen to it. I scrolled up abit more and they have been messaging alot.
I told him I was going home and walked out after saying the reason. He won't pick up the phone. He won't open My messages. I feel so betrayed. I've done so much for him and he was planning a future with me. He's really hurt me.
I just feel so broken today and I'm home alone and feeling really lost.