I was out last night with a friend for drinks and a bit of food. In the pub, I ordered some small sharing plates for us and we were just chatting away when a man came over to our table and started talking at/to us. He was clearly drunk but we were in a pub and we'd also had a few drinks.
His group of friends were standing away from us at this point. We made it clear that we didn't really want to talk to him and I asked him to stop looming over us and our food. He wandered off but then eventually came back, followed by a friend who wasn't as drunk. The friend sat down next to me while we were still eating and eventually the whole group were around the table. My friend disappeared to go to the bar. She is more chatty with other people when we're out so I understand that she felt more comfortable with the situation.
One of the men then took some food off my plate and another just kept staring at me and it really creeped me out. I can't really remember anything that they said because they were all talking and asking me questions or making general comments. They weren't being overly sexual or aggressive but they were in my space. After a few minutes I remembered that I have legs so I picked up our bags and jackets and walked off to find my friend at the bar, told her we're going and then we went to the toilets.
As we were leaving the doorman told me that he had been keeping an eye on our table and that the group of men had now left.
Today I keep thinking about it and I got upset when my DH asked about my night out. Am I being over sensitive about what happened? I feel down about it today and I feel like I wouldn't go to that place again. For context, my friend and I are are in our early 40s, the men were late 20s.