Brief backstory - married best friend, together 10+ years, 3 DC. DH working away, not orioriting family, drinking at weekends too much which gradually happened over a period of time. Out of character.
He has moved out of family home, burying his head in the sand. Limited contact. We have lots of mutual friends, he had n lot spoken to anyone. He had become withdrawn and is very unhappy. Possibly depressed - but literally refusing to open up despite many attempts from me.
I’ve been patient for a few months, it’s been hell, total heart break for me. I’ve tried to reach out - he wants to open up but seems incapabale of doing so. To the point of possibly losing his marriage.
I want to help him and have been living in hope but ultimately am being constantly rejected even to talk. He had know answers to questions, just ‘I don’t know’. Extremely frustrating - I don’t want to give up on him but at what point do I say enough is enough.