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Inappropriate teen

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Teenageboyz · 28/03/2022 11:04

My son is 15 his friend is 13. I had a call from his friends mum. Saying my ds had sent a half naked picture to her son with ds just wearing a towel . His bottom half was covered so it was just his top half showing. I don't know why he sent it. I don't know if any words were said with the picture. It could have been anything from something inappropriate to the words "getting ready to out out" I have no idea at all.

There was another issue several months back . But I have forgotten the details of it. I know that it was something to do with saying rude sexual things. It was my son her son and another boy.

The mum has been extremely concerned about the behaviour coming from my son. I don't 100% trust my son myself as we have been having a really hard time with him.

With both issues above the mum has said she will report to social services. She also said she has blocked my son from all contact with her son. But then after a week or so she unblocks them from each other and let's them talk again.

I don't know if its 3 /4 (depending who's there) saying silly things to each other that are sometimes sexual. Or weather there is a real issue . Part of me thinks if its that bad why Do you keep unblocking him.

She also wont belive her son does anything wrong she said that that her son only swears when around my son. I don't believe my ds is innocent but also think they are probably all saying stuff to each other.

I have not approached ds just yet. I just wanted some advice/thoughts before I do.

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Strugglingtodomybest · 29/03/2022 08:33

I have told ds he need to leave things now. I have told him not to except when the friend and his mum unblocks.

I think you've done the right thing.

She said about telling social services I did not know what to say. I just said it was up to her.

Again, I think that was the right reaction. I don't know what she thinks SS will do.

I found it hard when my boys, especially the oldest, turned 13. It really was a milestone for them, they were no longer little boys. Maybe your friend is finding it hard to accept that her son is growing up and away from her?

Teenageboyz · 29/03/2022 08:58

@Strugglingtodomybest

I have told ds he need to leave things now. I have told him not to except when the friend and his mum unblocks.

I think you've done the right thing.

She said about telling social services I did not know what to say. I just said it was up to her.

Again, I think that was the right reaction. I don't know what she thinks SS will do.

I found it hard when my boys, especially the oldest, turned 13. It really was a milestone for them, they were no longer little boys. Maybe your friend is finding it hard to accept that her son is growing up and away from her?

I did wounder that. As well. It's sad for the kids really as its all been taken out of proportion. I do wounder if there's other stuff going on for her.
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