DD, aged 26, has told me her Ddad has offered to give his one-off lump sum retirement payment to her to use as a deposit on a FTB house - the condition is that he must be allowed to stay there one night a week. She would take out a mortgage for the rest. She is very excited at the prospect as you'd expect but also knows her Ddad is full of shit ideas which never come to anything so she isn't holding her breath and hasn't mentioned it again.
The sum would be in the region of £120,000 or so.
He is also, she says, due to receive half of the sale proceeds of a house he bought with his former partner who was the OW he left me for, but this relationships didn't last. I know a little about the house and it is in a very expensive part of the South but I don't know much more and I'm not interested really.
My concern is this: that this smells a bit whiffy to me. I say that because he had form for dodginess before, and during, our marriage (gambling, tax evasion, theft of money from my account) . I don't want to expand on that, it's all in the past and I have no ties with him whatsoever now, apart from our DD. She has Autism and has a good and promising career in one of the public services; she has worked very hard indeed and she has such a bright future. Where things can, and have, gone awry is that her ability to read and discern other people's communications and intent has made her vulnerable in the past.
When she told me what he has put to her I asked a couple of questions about, i.e. has she checked out that this is possible re: mortgages, tax, why for example he would have to stay there one night a week when he is renting a perfectly good property of his own.
She doesn't know what the details would look like and when I said I thought she should consult and take ALL paperwork to a solicitor before agreeing to anything or signing anything she got the huff and said that "he's my Dad, he isn't going to do anything dodgy to me".
I'm afraid I don't agree but in any case, what I'm worried about is that if this is not completely above board she might walk into something that comes back to bite her later on.
Is this legal, would there be tax implications for my DD? Would a solicitor raise the kind of questions that I don't know to ask?