@peridito - I know your comment on this thread is over a year old, but I was wondering how you was getting on?
I wasn't brought up with great dental hygiene unfortunately and had caps/crowns on both my upper front teeth plus one of my teeth to the side wasn't great. In 2019 my front teeth crowns cracked whilst eating a Dime bar (that I don't particularly like but had been bought as part of a hamper Xmas present). I had to have 3 dentures on a plate.
I was also devastated and hated the feel. Except when alone in the bathroom to clean it, I never removed it even during the night in the dark.
My teeth overall had worsened due to my own neglect over a long period of ill health - still I didn't realise how bad.
Last summer I visited a dentists whilst on holiday in Turkey after communicating with them for months about implants.
I'd researched the company and had the assessment whilst there on holiday - all free of charge including a taxi to and from the premises over 1 hour away from our hotel.
The staff and premises were all professional, with professional equipment etc - but the upshot was, my jaw bone structure was so poor they couldn't guarantee implants would work (and less so if I had temporary "teeth" put in whilst the implants themselves healed).
I was grateful they were honest (as they could have conned me out of approx £6k plus flights) but so disheartened. Especially as they told me I urgently needed to see a dentist back in the UK (I wasn't registered with one anymore).
Another tooth at the front upper deteriorated with old fillings falling out and the weak tooth chipping. I couldn't find a NHS dentists taking on new patients so in the end had to say it was an emergency.
I had to have this additional tooth and another one added onto my existing denture plate.
I was so upset.
I then had to pay private for additional work which included a in-depth clean and some fillings and advice on treating gum disease. In treating the gum disease by, amongst other measures using inter dental brushes another crown/cap became loose and the private dentist had already told me there was an infection under it which would need treating at some point.
So when the crown fell out due to using the inter-dental brushes, the dentists said there was no way they could fit another - so another tooth added to the denture = 6 now.
I'm still hopeful that I'll be able to improve things enough to have implants as I hate wearing dentures.
I don't have any major problems eating as with tougher foods I just use my natural back teeth.
Nor does it look too bad.
It's just the feel I hate, and the appearance when I remove it.
So I totally get the psychological struggle you refer to.
I try not to have regrets in life but to learn from mistakes etc - but not taking good enough care of my teeth is definitely a regret I live with :(