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DetailMouse · 16/03/2022 10:22

I don't live in the Met Police area and in my suburban, white middle class life, the police are people you go to for help in often distressing times. I understand that's not everyone's experience.

I was at a football match in London last night. There was a crowd of maybe 10000, so a lot of people, but small for a professional football match.

I have never seen so many police and I've been to football all over the country. There were 100s of them, plus horses, all looking really quite aggressive in their "battle gear". Usually at games of this size you get a handful of "bobbies" smiling and bantering with fans and that's it.

There was no trouble at all, that I witnessed at the game, and the crowds outside the ground seemed relaxed and good natured.

At one point my friend and I stood on a street corner, literally a yard away from a group of these officers, clearly a bit confused about which direction we needed to get back to the station. They must have heard and seen that we needed help. No one budged or spoke.

Of course we could have just asked, but wouldn't you expect a public servant on duty to offer help where it was so obviously needed and easy to give?

And why such a huge and aggressive presence? The police were far more intimidating than the fans on either side.

It made me very glad I'm not a London council tax payer TBH. The cost must have been enormous.

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Motnight · 16/03/2022 10:26

There's a huge amount wrong with the Met Police but not approaching people to ask if they need directions isn't one of them.

DetailMouse · 16/03/2022 10:28

@Motnight

There's a huge amount wrong with the Met Police but not approaching people to ask if they need directions isn't one of them.
Isn't it part of building relationships with the population? My post wasn't about that though, it was about being this hugely aggressive force v a friendly face when people need them.
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AnotherNC22 · 16/03/2022 10:41

I am a London taxpayer - this article has figures as to how much football clubs cost to police vs how much can be charged back to the clubs (spoiler alert - very little), but i really wouldn't be bothered about them not offering directions to someone who hadn't even asked Hmm www.mylondon.news/sport/football/top-football-clubs-arsenal-spurs-20210241

I'm more concerned about when they are going to fix their disgusting racist and sexist behaviour, such as the horrific story yesterday of the 15yr old girl subjected to a strip search in school whilst on her period. It is going to be very difficult for them to "build relationships with the population" (as you put it) when we keep hearing about stories like this. A Met Police Officer smiling at a football match isn't going to change that.

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Pedallleur · 16/03/2022 10:43

Be glad you werent a person of colour. you'd prob be beaten and/or arrested then strip searched.

DetailMouse · 16/03/2022 10:44

I realise my issue is tiny and isn't going to change the world, but isn't it endemic in the fact that they don't see their role as supporting the public?

Plus why on earth do they need such a huge and costly presence when every other police force in the country seems to manage football games with far fewer?

Just examples of, as you say, strange priorities.

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Georgeskitchen · 16/03/2022 10:44

Don't the football clubs get a bill sent for policing matches? I live in a premiership football town and ther e's usually a massive police presence yet ring them to report a crime and they have nobody available!!

DetailMouse · 16/03/2022 10:45

@Georgeskitchen

Don't the football clubs get a bill sent for policing matches? I live in a premiership football town and ther e's usually a massive police presence yet ring them to report a crime and they have nobody available!!
Only inside the ground. They were very few police inside the ground actually.
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Polyanthus2 · 16/03/2022 11:47

Who were playing - must have thought something could kick off (other than the football)

FindingMeno · 16/03/2022 11:53

I'm relieved to find people are finally waking up to the police not being your friends.
I try to avoid them if at all possible and would greatly hesitate to report crime to them as I just don't want any dealings with them at all.
I know ' not all police...' but I don't know what sort I'd be dealing with and my levels of unease and mistrust are from lived experience.

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