My soon to be ex h, who I still get on with, admitted to me yesterday that he has committed benefit fraud. He is panicking that he will be discovered which is why he confided in me. We have a child together and I am so disappointed in him as he is usually law abiding. My thoughts are now out of control and I am concerned he will be prosecuted if discovered and put in jail and the impact that will have on our child. What a horrendous role model, it’s so upsetting. He has a low income and lives off his savings. Since he separated his income has been below the level but he does not qualify on a capital basis and lied about the sum he had in savings. I’m mainly angry but beside myself with worry.