I know this sounds ridiculous, but I've been thinking and google-ing for a few weeks now and I'm drawing a blank.
It is my 30th birthday in a few months, and I just have no clue what would be a nice thing to do to celebrate.
I have a husband, a 3 year old and a nearly 5 year old.
We don't have any babysitters or any family help, so anything we do will require having the DC with us.
DH has said he'll have the DC for the day and I could go to a spa or beautician appointment, but I don't really want to spend the day alone. I don't have any friends, I'm a stay at home Mom and have been in the thick of parenting and just don't have friends and i dont see that changing in the next few months. Nor am I particularly close to most my family.
So what is a nice family friendly day out which would be enjoyable and special enough for a 30th birthday?
I'm in the West Midlands but would travel a bit for the right thing.
We regularly do zoos, parks, farms and similar for the DC to enjoy.
I also can't have a party as with no friends and most members of my family refusing to be in the same room it would be a waste of time and money and just give me anxiety.
Eldest DC is autistic so nothing with really loud noises as its a big trigger for him.
We usually would prefer takeaways to meals out as the youngest gets bored as soon as he's eaten, his attention span is lacking so museum's are out. A Saturday night takeaway doesn't feel super special.
Any suggestions?
I'm just thinking someone might read this and immediately think of something perfect.
I know its basically a long list of things we can't do, but that's why I've encountered a problem.
Thanks in advance.