Abortion

[Shy88help]

Ive recently had an abortion. It wasn't straight forward ended up losing alot of blood and having to get the placenta removed.
Anyway since then I've just felt so alone. My husband won't really look at me or talk to me. He was on board with it.
If I try speak to him he doesn't really listen. Things haven't been good between us for awhile and I feel like this is the final nail in the coffin.
I don't know what to do. I love him but I just hate feeling so alone in this relationship and I just fear constantly that he's more interested in other women. Now I've gone through this which is hard to deal with the emotion of it all and getting very little support through it he basically sat on his phone the whole time and would show me support every now and then. I just feel so lost.

I'm sorry to read this - it sounds like a traumatic experience for both of you. I have no experience so can't offer advice but I hope you can find a way through this .

Thank you I really hope we can sort things out.

Can you get some kind of counselling ? Even ring the samaritans you do not have to be suicidal if you need to chat.
Do you think your DP is grieving and unfortunately cannot support you. It maybe best to talk to friends or reach out to others for a while. Has he always been like this.
Try and look after yourself as you would a friend. Hope it gets better.

I don't know what's going through his head. He won't talk to me about any of it. Even the day I got out the hospital he was more concerned about the money he had spent. I was stood like actually that's what your bothered about. It was the last thing I was needing to hear about was him moaning about money.