I have a year 2 and year 3. I can't fill in the gaps through talking, reading, doing a bit of maths and arguing our way through some cgp books.
It's a bit insulting to teachers and schools when people to say this is all that is needed and we're just not trying hard enough at home.
I'm fine talking about characters in a book, discussing similes, alliteration, expounded noun phrases, the parts of a plant or drawing bar models to solve a maths problem. I have no idea how to help when my August born y2 is crying because he can't remember how to write the letter f (and apparently it's definitely not the way I would write it).
I'm so upset for them with how far behind they are compared to where I'm sure they would be. My year 3 is in an intervention group but waiting to discuss plans for my year 2 at parents evening. They've just reassessed his phonics and moved him back to the book band he was on a year ago. (We read every day, have reading chest, books at home, magnetic phonics, completed learning sheets - but it just hasn't sunk in the same way.)
After the first lockdown, he couldn't tell me the name of any of the children in his reception class. He didn't transition well into year 1 and just as they were settling in, they were out again.
I'm with you op - I will take any support, intervention or suggestions that the school are able to offer!