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ConfusedAndHelpless · 10/03/2022 08:48

I just need to get this out anonymously.

I don't know how I'm supposed to survive like this. I have under £100 left until payday in a few weeks time. I have to drive 25 minutes to work daily so I need fuel, but I can't afford fuel now. It's nearly doubled.

Food seems to be going up too, my weekly shop has increased £30. I'm not exactly buying a prime cut of steak either.

My job is ok but we only got a very very small pay rise which works out an extra £50 a month after tax, grateful but it won't even touch the sides.

Our gas and electric has gone up over £150 month than our current payment.

I'm suffering with depression and don't think the medication is helping anymore. I hate this world, I thought Covid restrictions ending meant all would be ok but now we've got the poor Ukraine situation and don't see it getting any better either.

I'm not poor, I have a good job, so does my partner but we don't qualify for any help so we're just getting by and it's fucking hard.

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Knockmealdowns · 10/03/2022 21:53

Hugs hope your ok.. can you find something you enjoy? Walking dogs and hill walking help me..

Babyroobs · 10/03/2022 22:02

It's so hard. Is there anyone you could car share with, or is it too far to bike ? Sorry I know it's not always practical.

JustBkind · 10/03/2022 22:03

I really feel for you right now. Does your employer know your situation? Can they help with transport? Is your job one that can be done from home (even partially) to help with fuel costs?
Next step would be going back to the doctor for a review of your medication. You said it isn’t working, so maybe that can offer an alternative?
It is hard at the moment and you are not alone in this by any means. Energy price increase are beyond belief but we are heading towards spring and summer which should help. Stay strong. X

ConfusedAndHelpless · 10/03/2022 22:05

Thank you all for your replies Thanks

I'm training for the London marathon so plenty of fresh air and exercise.

Unfortunately I can't WFH for my role. Car sharing isn't an option as all my colleagues live the opposite end of the county and I can't bike due to needing A roads to get to work.

I just needed to vent Sad

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