I’m 47 and my sex drive has been practically non existent for a year or more. I thought it was due to hormones and peri menopause etc and I have felt annoyed/sad about it. I do have sex quite regularly with DH, but more to maintain our closeness as a couple than because I feel turned on.
I’ve been on HRT for about 4 months now and tbh I don’t really feel any different but have increased my dose in the past month. For the past couple of weeks I’ve had some really vivid dreams about passionate, loving sex with DH. However, when I’m awake I feel none of these feelings. It’s such a stark difference to how I actually feel it’s made me feel even sadder about my lost sex drive. Any idea what’s going on?