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Starting a new job tomorrow and nervous! Mistake?

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QueenslandBlue · 27/02/2022 23:47

Regular; NC because this is outing.

I'm starting a new job tomorrow and, although I know it's silly, I am really nervous. The place where I'll be working is a small family-owned plant nursery and they're excellent at what they do. I'm a keen gardener, and my brother's a professional gardener/landscaper, and we both really rate them. It's also a very beautiful place to work - there are birds that fly in and out of the building where the tills are, it's lovely.

I'm going to be earning minimum wage and I'm under no illusions that it won't be hard work, but I am feeling really nervous as I've given up on a career that I trained for for years, and which I gave up on rather reluctantly. When I could get secure work I earned a lot more in that job - not masses by MN standards, but easily three or four times what I'll earn here, plus a pension, and if I'd stayed in that job and made it (big if!) I'd have earned a fair bit more. I feel really relieved to have walked away, as it was really stressful and horrible. But a tiny bit of me is worried that I've made a huge mistake!

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WeAreTheHeroes · 27/02/2022 23:50

Why did you decide to apply for the job? You can only regret the things you don't do so if this doesn't work out presumably you can go back to your earlier career?

QueenslandBlue · 27/02/2022 23:53

@WeAreTheHeroes

Why did you decide to apply for the job? You can only regret the things you don't do so if this doesn't work out presumably you can go back to your earlier career?
Oh, sorry, I didn't explain clearly enough. I didn't have secure work in my earlier career, so I applied for this job because I didn't have employment, I was between posts. The dilemma is that lots of people do take on short-term posts (anything between a few months and 5 years), in the hope they'll eventually land a permanent job. But you inevitably get a lot of rejections and a lot of periods with no income or little income, and I just couldn't cope with it any more.

I doubt I could go back now, unless something really changed.

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mrsfollowill · 27/02/2022 23:57

Aw it is natural to feel nervous doing anything new- grit your teeth and just get on with it! It sounds a wonderful job and I bet you'll enjoy it. Live in the moment and throw yourself into it Grin

QueenslandBlue · 27/02/2022 23:58

@mrsfollowill

Aw it is natural to feel nervous doing anything new- grit your teeth and just get on with it! It sounds a wonderful job and I bet you'll enjoy it. Live in the moment and throw yourself into it Grin
Thank you! That's just what I needed to hear. I'm so excited about it but also feel as if I shouldn't be too hopeful.
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chocolateisavegetable · 28/02/2022 10:06

It is completely normal to feel nervous about starting a new job. There is one sentence you wrote that just tells me you are going to be absolutely fine:

It's also a very beautiful place to work - there are birds that fly in and out of the building where the tills are, it's lovely.

There aren't many jobs that you can say this about!

TabithaTittlemouse · 28/02/2022 10:10

It sounds really lovely! I bet you will really enjoy it.

QueenslandBlue · 28/02/2022 18:26

Thanks @chocolateisavegetable and @TabithaTittlemouse! I had a lovely first day and feel much better. It was really nice to have some MN reassurance too! Smile

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DickVanDyke26 · 28/02/2022 19:02

Sounds fab

rattlemehearties · 28/02/2022 19:05

Lovely and low stress sounds like what you need just now! Enjoy it. Well done on getting the first day hurdle over and done with

Cakeonthefloor · 28/02/2022 19:11

I am jealous! It sounds lovely!

Kumbaya12 · 28/02/2022 19:12

Can you to back to that industry if you wish to Op? Or do it part time?

KylieCharlene · 28/02/2022 19:19

I'd rather work somewhere with less stress and lovely surroundings doing something you enjoy than be working in a stressful role that I don't feel very secure in.
Some people forget that you don't live to work. Your job actually sounds idyllic.

QueenslandBlue · 01/03/2022 18:09

@Kumbaya12

Can you to back to that industry if you wish to Op? Or do it part time?
No! Grin

But I had another nice day so I feel much better. Smile

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mrsfollowill · 02/03/2022 23:55

Glad you have had a nice day! There is a lot to be said about being happy in your job and it sounds like you have got there- onwards and upwards and enjoy Grin

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