Silly question but what is general etiquette if 12 year old has been invited to cinema outing for someone’s birthday. Are presents the norm? I’m used to either parties for much younger kids or get togethers where we know family/kids well (so would buy them). I don’t want to send son with a present if that will be seriously uncool (!) but also happy to get something if the norm. And if so - any ideas for generic presents? DS will not be great for ideas - he can never think of anything himself. DS struggling a bit with social anxiety at mo, so don’t want to get things wrong.