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Yes I'm being judgemental

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Zippedclosed · 22/02/2022 21:40

I know I shouldn't judge. I know it's none of my business. I can't be the only one thinking this though, can I?

I have a friend. Not a best friend but we were at school together and see each other around, have catch-ups, facebook etc
She split up with her ex about 7 months ago. He was a horrible cheat but she stayed with him. However as soon as another guy showed interest she left him for the new guy. Within the first month she was taking her 4yr old DD on days out with him, posting pictures of them all together. She said she has no choice but to introduce DD to him otherwise she wouldn't be able to see new guy as DD was always around.
Now she is constantly saying how he's such a good role model for DD, posting comments with photos laughing about trying to take a nice 'family photo', he's practically moved in, and what I find odd is he has a photo of the DD as his FB cover picture.

It's all too much too soon for such a young child surely? I'm finding it so hard to bite my tongue when all I want to do is shout you are not a family, he is your boyfriend, he should have barely met your DD yet!

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TellMeMoreHellebore · 22/02/2022 21:43

its her call. none of your business....

sparkycats · 22/02/2022 21:46

I also have a friend making bad decisions. I am trying not to judge but it's hard when you don't agree with so much of what they say/do.

Ultimately these are her choices and I think it's best just to leave it and be there if it goes wrong. I have tried talking to my friend but she doesn't want to listen and doesn't want advice. She will do what she wants. I expect the same will be true with your friend.

Easterbunnyiswindowshopping · 22/02/2022 21:47

I met dh and he met dc within weeks. Married with a dc. Been nearly 10 years.

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