So I’ve recently broke with my partner of 2 years (his choice) sort of been a while coming but not something we both wanted . He thought was for the best as he felt he was being selfish keep holding on to me. We’re still good friends atm and see each other all the time but without anything sexual . I have 4 children (none his) 2 teenage girls and a 4 year old girl and only one mixed race boy. The other kids are white . He can’t accept my mixed race little boy he avoids the children. He has his own 2 children one teenage girl and one nearly 4 year old girl , he left his relationship with his baby mum as that had ended and we met and had our relationship but he went from living with her and his daughter to being with me and my kids and carried a lot of guilt being with other kids and not his own daughter as he had always been there . That lead him to distance himself from my children but I know he doesn’t feel right taking on a mixed race child with him being a white nan he says it doesn’t feel right and feels people would be staring etc. I’ve been in a couple of abusive rubbish relationships and have finally found someone that I feel is perfect in every way except the child situation and we both very much love each other. What do I do? How do I move on ? It’s so hard I just want to be with him but I don’t want him to feel that way about my son I’m really lost