I don’t know if this will make you feel better or worse, OP, but maybe better? The fact is, Russia invaded Ukraine in 2014. And they stayed. That’s when the time to worry was. A thread on MN back then about whether that would start WWIII only got 43 comments, and that’s it. No one cared. No one seemed to care anywhere. Those of us paying attention and, Im sure, the probable preschools in Ukraine that were legitimately bombed by Russia when they took the Crimea (and have taken Donbas, now held by “Russian-loyal separatists” so… Russia) back then couldn’t believe it. There was no COVID yet, no Brexit, no rising food and energy costs, so there may have been a lot less to fear on a daily basis. But there was the exact same amount for Ukraine to fear. They were invaded by Russia, permanently annexed, they lost part of their country, and they’ve never gotten it back. So I guess I’m mot exactly sure why everyone is so surprised or concerned. The time to be scared was 2014, when the international community let Russia take part of Ukraine and did nothing. It’s too late now. And since they took part of Ukraine and no one stopped them… Of COURSE they were eventually going to come for the rest of it. The only thing that probably delayed them this long was COVID, because it definitely wasn’t fear of an international response (see the complete lack of response in 2014). When WWIII does truly happen, it will mutual assured destruction, nuclear weapons, and it will be over within hours and nothing will be left.
The thread from 2014: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/in_the_news/2035549-Ukraine-WWIII
And I’m really, really not trying to be glib or negative, OP, especially if you’re anxious. I just don’t think this moment, and Ukraine, is why anyone should be worried about WWIII.