My DD turned 12 last year and is still trying to navigate year seven.
She has an entirely new friendship group that is very mean girls in my opinion, since making friends with this group she has stopped being a librarian and has given up on all her after school clubs and was declaring subjects as boring even though three weeks before she was loving them.
I’ve just been receiving messages from her at school saying some of the girls are spreading lies about her such as she slapped one of the other girls, now a friend of the girl she allegedly slapped is threatening to beat her up.
I have spoken with the school already and given the school all the names of the girls involved so hopefully they can deal with that side of it but what can I do in the meantime?
I want to get across the message of walking away from this particular group and starting afresh. I’ve tried to tell her that all the threats of violence and aggression is not friendship but her self esteem is way down and her anxiety is through the roof.
I thought maybe some books I could download to her fire tablet? Something about raising self esteem in teen girls maybe? How to find strength to walk away from toxic friendships? Does anyone have any advice or recommendations?