So my husband keeps telling me how fucking boring I am because I won’t let him cuddle up to me and be intimate…… but it’s a vicious circle because he calls me all the names under the sun and therefore don’t feel like being all lovey dovey and intimate with him…. I feel drained with all these mind games:- if you’re boring and useless let’s get a divorce / and in next breath I love you so much!!!???…… I’m exhausted and just don’t know how to play it?!…. Should I just give in and be all cuddly and romantic when I’m still seething from his comments for an easy life!??…. I sometimes think the kids are picking up on tension which is not what I signed up for!!….