THE HORMONAL EXPERIENCE đ¸đ
So, I am 38 and this is a little glimpse into my period and ovulation experienceâŚ..
Our periods are marked as WEEK 1âŚ
I wanted to encourage everyone from my experienceâŚ..
So, to remind you, your normal! and everything is ok, and it shall pass :)
5 days before my period I get very very emotionally low and I feel so bloated. In my 20âs I didnât ever know what this was never mind how to manage the low⌠In my 30âs the lows were too bad that I decided to get an APP called âFertility Friendâ and track my monthly cycle. When I arrived 5 days before the possible coming of my period I could feel my emotions begin to drop dramatically. Before I had this APP (or any fertility tracking APP) I wouldnât have any idea how to cope to to speak. I would just sink⌠for anyone wondering what does it feel like, for me it feels like a deep sadness/ so so low emotionally⌠when I got the APP and seen âoh, Ok. Ok, I can see Iâm 5 days away from my period and for the last many many months it is in and around these days I begin to feel this low! This helps me sooooo much. It doesnât take away what Iâm experiencing, but THAT is what it is RIGHT THEREâŚ.. âexperiencingâ.. i am reminded âthis will pass in a few days! Hold onâ as well as feeling so terribly low, I also get a splitting head ache for 1 or 2 days around that 5 days before period mark, and I enter into what I would call, an extreme exhaustion. This exhaustion is rather debilitating and when I try and do ânormalâ things likeâŚâŚ walkâŚ. My whole body aches, almost like the feeling of how your body feels when youâve got the flu⌠that heavy sore skin and muscles feelingâŚ.
The night before my period (itâs marked on the fertility APP calendar and my body is like clockwork, so I am sure to know it arrived within a day or 3 of the âmarked timeâ)⌠let me back track, I KNOW my period is coming the next day as I begin to feel sensitive in my lower tummy, I want to cry at anything, the world feels like itâs ending and all I can do for the remaining 24 hours on earth, is, eat salty things, white things, red wine and sugar!!! And my clothes barely fit by this point, as I normally gain 3ilbs.
This all happens 2 times a month as I experience (yes! That word again, EXPERIENCE⌠because I know these feelings will pass!) so finally I am prepared for the symptoms to come!
It normally happens 5 days BEFORE my period and when I bleed (which becomes are week one of our cycle) I have relieve because I think âyes! I wasnât a maniac it was only the little hormones in my beautiful body preparing)
I normally experience the same things a few days before ovulation also. And AT ovulation I normally feel the egg being released. That is also very painful. But again, I know itâll PASS!!!
Woman keep going! Our bodies are absolutely fantastic! Soloed your beautiful self! Be sweet to yourself as you experience it all! It will pass đ
Tips during these daysâŚ
*Last of water
*Try to remove as much high sugary things and stick to dark chocolate and fruit when your crying on your pillow that life is over but really your hormonal)
*While wheat bread when you want a toast binge attack!
*Rather than coke cola or 7up, try sparkling water with no sugar diluted drops in it
*walk! Yes exercise even a bit. Berating in the fresh air no matter the weather WILL lift your mood!
*remind yourself âthis is just an experience and itâll pass in a day or twoâ
*watch your mouthâŚ. Anger may be something you get but remember to watch your mouth and be kind. When you canât remember to say sorry đ. Or just stay away from other humans! Haha
*accept that youâve gained 3ilbs and you feel like a wild boar haha⌠itâll be peed out soon!
*watch a movie and let yourself cry! Haha
*tell your self your amazing cause you are and if you donât feel like it or believe it, weâll I am saying it NOWâŚ. âWOMAN you ARE AMAZINGâ!
hugs and loves ,
Cara