And private rent? I've got my name on a mortgage which I paid into for 8 years and haven't for the last 7 due to having children. My ex pays for everything now and has his head completely in the sand and wants us to carry on living in the same house.
I feel unhappy and like I can't be q good mum. Plus I'm in a new relationship and I'm sick of the inconsistencies and feeling like I can't enjoy things my way.
My ex leaves the house an absolute tip if I leave the house for a night or 2. I hate it.
In regards to working I'm awaiting surgeries and biopsies. I often end up in hospital due to extreme blood loss and until that's sorted I can't go to work. I hope everything will be sorting by the time my youngest goes to school in September then I'll happily work.
Does anyone know whether I could claim benefits and leave the house?