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Tappa · 06/02/2022 18:13

I need advice.
I have seen my partner for 6 years. I live with him and his son. We had an affair years before, I cheated as did he but we stopped. Then fast forward we both rekindled it, left our partners. We used to get on well, good banter, amazing sex. Here’s the problem, I coparent he doesn’t, his ex sees his son but no real communication. He keeps telling me I’m wrong to coparent, why did I leave him, he has main custody, the children come and stay, it works; we made it work. I even let my mum have contact, why not? But my partner, no he’s a rat in a bag, now because I have male friends on FB I’m cheating. He’s even arguing if one of my children want to stay an extra night, I have the during the week and every other weekend. Six years now, he’s just got worse. I feel like a failure, I left my ex with the children and house thinking they would be better; I made it work and we coparent well; but my partner is getting in the way now, he’s threatened or jealous. Sorry for my rant I just don’t know what to do

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