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Would you buy this house?

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PossiblyDreaming · 26/01/2022 21:13

5 years ago dh and I were looking at buying a house and there was one that I fell in love with but dh hated. It was a 300 year old fisherman’s cottage with low ceilings, really thick walls and cosy fireplaces. Basically my dream house as I’ve always wanted a period property and there were so many beautiful features like the old beams and tiled floors etc.

Anyway 6’2” dh talked sense into me as he’d have to spend the whole time ducking from beams and we instead went for a detached new build with a nice big garden on a completely bland estate. All very practical and boring.

Dh and I have now split up and the original cottage I loved is up for sale again and I can afford it. But, the owners that have had it for the last few years have completely gutted it - lowered the floors on the ground floor so the ceiling doesn’t seem so low, boxed in the beams, all the lovely, wonky walls have been boxed in and plastered flat and painted grey. Open fireplace replaced with a bloody ugly wood burner. Aga replaced with an enormous spaceship looking oven.

I could afford to fix it all again but it seems such a waste of resources to basically undo something that someone has spent the last few years doing. It would also probably involve dc and I living elsewhere for at least a few months while work was being done. But it is (or was) so bloody gorgeous.

Cottages like this come up so rarely and are normally snapped up as second homes within hours. I’m guessing it’s the fact that this has been so horribly renovated that people have been out off.

Wwyd?

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DePfeffoff · 27/01/2022 17:14

Have you made a decision, OP? It does sound quite exciting.

CormoranStrike · 27/01/2022 17:43

@PossiblyDreaming

5 years ago dh and I were looking at buying a house and there was one that I fell in love with but dh hated. It was a 300 year old fisherman’s cottage with low ceilings, really thick walls and cosy fireplaces. Basically my dream house as I’ve always wanted a period property and there were so many beautiful features like the old beams and tiled floors etc.

Anyway 6’2” dh talked sense into me as he’d have to spend the whole time ducking from beams and we instead went for a detached new build with a nice big garden on a completely bland estate. All very practical and boring.

Dh and I have now split up and the original cottage I loved is up for sale again and I can afford it. But, the owners that have had it for the last few years have completely gutted it - lowered the floors on the ground floor so the ceiling doesn’t seem so low, boxed in the beams, all the lovely, wonky walls have been boxed in and plastered flat and painted grey. Open fireplace replaced with a bloody ugly wood burner. Aga replaced with an enormous spaceship looking oven.

I could afford to fix it all again but it seems such a waste of resources to basically undo something that someone has spent the last few years doing. It would also probably involve dc and I living elsewhere for at least a few months while work was being done. But it is (or was) so bloody gorgeous.

Cottages like this come up so rarely and are normally snapped up as second homes within hours. I’m guessing it’s the fact that this has been so horribly renovated that people have been out off.

Wwyd?

Yes! Your home is calling to you.
PossiblyDreaming · 27/01/2022 18:05

I made an offer after viewing this afternoon. Just waiting to hear back from the estate agent 🤞

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CormoranStrike · 27/01/2022 18:07

@PossiblyDreaming

I made an offer after viewing this afternoon. Just waiting to hear back from the estate agent 🤞
Oh that is exciting! Good luck
2018SoFarSoGreat · 27/01/2022 18:09

good luck, OP. Sounds like this home was meant to be yours. How exciting!

Unsure33 · 27/01/2022 18:17

Fingers crossed 🤞

pussycatunpickingcrossesagain · 27/01/2022 18:31

Good Luck OP.

SimonedeBeauvoirscat · 27/01/2022 18:48

Woo how exciting! My advice for what it’s worth is, if your offer is excepted get hold of a decent ‘heritage’ builder (ie. One with expedience / specialism in old houses) and take them round to have a look. Obviously have the fullest possible survey and try to get a firm which does a lot of work on that type of house. As others have said, there may be some egregious issues which you need experts to advise on.
That said, I would go for it. You love it! And the fact that it has come back on the market means that it potentially will love you … karma!

SimonedeBeauvoirscat · 27/01/2022 18:48

Is ACCEPTED
sorry, autocorrect obviously

MaryStuart · 27/01/2022 18:57

Ooooh, that’s very exciting Op!
I was going to say keep the dropped floor. But get rid of the plasterboard and boxed in beams. What did you think? I might keep the wood burner (is it really ugly?)

thewhatsit · 27/01/2022 19:00

I would. Life is too short to be somewhere you don’t absolutely want to be.

Maybe you might not be able to fix the wonky (I mean re-wonky) the walls but beams boxed in could easily be changed.

The missing Aga might be a blessing in disguise. I mean it’s hardly like the Aga was original anyway 🤷‍♀️.. Everyone I know with an Aga these days say they just run on £20 notes.

Blossomtoes · 27/01/2022 19:07

Can we have a link when your offer’s been accepted, @PossiblyDreaming?

CambsAlways · 27/01/2022 19:16

Life’s too short not to go for it, do it

ThePennyJustDropped · 27/01/2022 19:16

Ooh this is so exciting! I hope you get it OP, I think it's meant to be.

theemmadilemma · 27/01/2022 19:21

Do it. Find the FB group ' I love my period house!' and put that house back to rights!

theemmadilemma · 27/01/2022 19:23

Oh! Yay, good luck and still come find the group!

MadisonAvenue · 27/01/2022 19:23

Oh how exciting! Please keep us updated!

PossiblyDreaming · 27/01/2022 19:26

Offer accepted!! I’ll probably be back on this thread in 6 months crying because my house is freezing, leaking and I’ve got permanent concussion from cracking my head on low beams.

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SimonedeBeauvoirscat · 27/01/2022 19:29

Wow congrats! GET A GOOD BUILDER OR CONSERVATION SURVEYOR! Before you complete!!!

gluenotsoup · 27/01/2022 19:31

Oh, how exciting!
This house was meant to be your home. It’s like sliding doors 😊

CormoranStrike · 27/01/2022 19:32

@PossiblyDreaming

Offer accepted!! I’ll probably be back on this thread in 6 months crying because my house is freezing, leaking and I’ve got permanent concussion from cracking my head on low beams.
Utterly amazing - congratulations
Honeyroar · 27/01/2022 19:38

Fabulous! It was obviously meant to be. Did it feel ok inside as things stand? Could you live with the changes for now?

CambsAlways · 27/01/2022 19:51

Brilliant

nzeire · 27/01/2022 20:07

I am thrilled for you!!!!!!
My wonky crooked home brings me a lot of joy, this will be your haven

PossiblyDreaming · 27/01/2022 20:10

It was actually better than I thought it was going to be. All the photos had been taken in a way that didn’t show that the interior walls haven’t really been touched much. Also it looks like it’s all been boxed in with plasterboard which should all be pretty easy to remove. When they lowered the floor they put in underfloor heating in which makes a huge difference and should still work if I get nice floorboards.

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