He's a nice young man, or so I thought. Good manners, kind to grandparents, reasonably pleasant to share a house with, seems to treat his girlfriend well, has a junior management post at work and seems to have a reputation for being firm but fair...
Anyway two things:
-GF is away on a 6 week course. On the first night one of the men was sent home for secually harassing a fellow student (yay!). But DS1's (and his GF's) response was "he didn't do anything, just made her feel uncomfortable"
-DS1 has just done jury service, although they didn't get to return a verdict because the case was abandoned due to someone testing positive, so will now be heard by another trudge and jury. It was DV case and he said on hearing the victim's evidence he believed her, but once she was questioned by the defence lawyer there were inconsistencies so he couldn't believe anything. They didn't hear all the evidence or reach a conclusion, but he ses to have decided she must have been lying because the lawyer was able to trip her up. I've tried to explain that in times if great stress, you light not remember every detail but that doesn't necessarily mean you're lying... I do wonder whether someone barely out of their teens is suitable to sit on a jury...
I'm really bothered about the man I've raised. I wouldn't have expected this at all. I don't think for a minute he'd be those people, but his acceptance of it it shocking.
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Really bothered by a couple of things 20yo DS1 has said
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QuestionsorComments · 26/01/2022 16:39
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