Or maybe he's just being a normal 18yo? DH died 6months ago and DS2 has insisted he's "fine" but has definitely gone inside himself, rarely going out or talking to anyone, but still very lively chatting to friends online - which is normal for him and developed over lockdown, I suppose.
Anyway, I went out for dinner at a friend's last night, got home about 2am and DS2 was gaming with friends, again normal. He'd had "a beer" and seemed normal.
At 4am, I'm woken by a thud, go to investigate and find that DS2 has fallen out of bed and is lying on pool of vomit. I then spend the next hours clearing up vomit from practically every room in the house - although tbf he did keep insisting he'd do it in the morning. It seems in addition to the beer, He'd been at his dad's whisky.
I then spend what's left of the night worried that he's going to choke in his sleep, have woken up with an awful cold and headache/hangover type symptoms, which I most definitely do not deserve!
DS2 has just got up and jumped in the shower and declared himself fine! It's not fair!
Anyway. I've been worried about him because he doesn't talk and he's refused all offers of support, but he does seem to be functioning OK at work etc. and is generally a good lad.
Do you think I need to do more than hope he's learned his lesson (DS1 came home in a much worse state, barely conscious, once, at the same age and has barely touched a drop since!) be "there", continue reminding him of the support that's available to him or should I do more to "make" him access some help? I'm really not sure how I do that though
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OK, so DS2 isn't coping with his dad's death as well as I thought
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QuestionsorComments · 23/01/2022 10:45
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