Short story is I've got a 3 week old and I haven't told my mum yet, I don't have a great relationship with her due to childhood and even issues in adulthood. She lives around 4 hours away so it's easy to not see her. I haven't seen her in 2 years, and we barely message. But I've just been hit by this intense guilt that she doesn't know about him. That right now he doesn't have a relationship with her. Do I tell her? I don't know how I would feel seeing and spending time with her.