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Your worst ever holiday

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DanteThunderstone · 12/01/2022 09:26

I know this has been done before but it's cold and grey outside and I haven't been on holiday in years and can't afford to any time soon. So please make me feel better about being stuck at home surrounded by rain puddles with tales of Holiday Disappointment. My worst ever holiday was when I was 19. I went on a two week package holiday to a cheap hotel in Rhodes with three friends. Almost immediately I got the worst flu of my life and spent pretty much the whole fortnight in an uncomfortable bed in an overheated room feeling like death while they all went on day trips and beach visits and nights out. Them rolling in pissed every night and waking me up was especially fun. I barely saw any of the island and I wasted two weeks leave and a few hundred quid lying in bed wanting my mum Grin

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YorkieTheRabbit · 12/01/2022 09:54

My mil had a heart attack. She spent six days in hospital on the island where we were on holiday and was the airlifted to a different island. We spent hours traveling too and from the hospital with fil, only one visitor was allowed and obviously he wanted to be with her and he couldn’t travel alone.
We had an hours notice that she was being moved and fil expected us to magic up flights and a hotel immediately.
Translators were few and far between so getting information was very difficult.
We ended up in a city centre hotel that was for business people, we’d gone on a beach holiday, we spent visiting hour in hospital with mil who received fantastic care, and the rest of the time we sat in a park. We had no idea how long it would take for her to be medivaced back to the uk. In total she spent eleven days in hospital and again we were only given a couple of hours notice, fil was flown back with her and we were left to arrange our flights home along with their baggage as that couldn’t be taken with them. Not an experience I’d ever want to repeat.

Sunsetsupernova · 12/01/2022 10:03

When I was a lot younger and naive I went on holiday with a male friend. I was not interested in him romantically in the slightest but was aware he had feelings for me. I have no idea why I thought a holiday was a good idea.

I spent the majority of the time trying not to give off any mixed signals which just seemed to make him more full on. The guy wouldn’t leave me alone for a second and it got to the point where every single thing he did irritated me. I could feel myself being a bitch to him but just couldn’t stop.

Sadly that was the end of our friendship.

skgnome · 12/01/2022 10:09

Just went on a 2 week villa holiday (Christmas in the sun) with all the extended family… first morning I woke up feeling quite under the weather…. Did a LFT, tested positive - yes, almost 2 weeks self isolating in a room… no one else tested positive the whole time we were there…
At least tested negative for the flight home….

Aposterhasnoname · 12/01/2022 10:09

Dom rep. Birthday trip. 2010. Are you sitting comfortably. This is long.

Got to the airport to be told the flight is delayed by a couple of hours, then a couple more, then a couple more. We were told the problem was they couldn’t open the hold doors to remove the previous passengers luggage. Eventually it got close to the point where they would have to put us in a hotel, so they said they had got permission to fly with the luggage still on board. Great. We boarded, got settled, then the captain announced the hold door had opened, so now they had to unload it. Another delay, crammed on the plane exhausted after sitting in an airport for about 16 hours. Just what we needed.

Finally set off and arrived at the hotel, which seemed nice enough, and settled down by the pool. Within minutes, it clouded over and the heavens opened. No problem, we’re all inclusive, let’s hit the bar, with all the rest of the hotels guests, who proceeded to get increasingly drunk, loud, and lairey. All entertainment was cancelled due to the weather, including the indoor show. But no matter, they put some music on. The lyrics of which included, if “you’re scared mother fucker go to church”. These lyrics were repeated with gusto, by all the guests, eventually including the children.

Got up the next day, still raining. So we repeated the day before. Next day, still raining, repeat the day before. Next day. Still raining.,, you get the idea. We tried to book a trip to break the endless cycle of get up, sit in the bar, go to bed, but they were all cancelled.

This went on for five days. Then the morning of my birthday arrived. It rained, so we sat in the bar all day! Again. By teatime we were more than a touch inebriated, so decided to go to the room for a nap. Got up and the whole world seemed to shake. Decided we definitely needed a nap and went to the room, and put on the telly. News reports of a massive earthquake in Haiti, and tsunami warnings for the dom rep. We were in a ground floor beachfront apartment! So we went to reception to ask what to do, blank looks all round. Decided along with most other guests (and don’t forget, we’d all been drinking pretty solidly for a week, to get to higher ground. Fortunately there was a large hill right beside the hotel so we all trooped up there, in the pouring rain, ankle deep in mud, where we all stood around like lemons for about an hour before squelching back to the bar!

Get up the next day to hear that most of the staff had family in Haiti and were understandably devastated and worried sick, so the atmosphere was terrible. The sun actually came out the day after the quake, and stayed for the rest of the week, but no one was in the holiday mood after seeing the terrible things that were happening just a short distance away.

Was delighted to leave, and get on the plane to go home. Waiting to take off a baby was screaming non stop. The pilot announced we were waiting for medics to check the poor little chap was ok to fly. So delayed again. They got on, and said he was good to go, but he continued screaming. We set off and took off, but a chap behind the baby had been very vocal about it annoying him. As soon as we took off he started yelling “shut that fucking brat up or I’ll do it for you” or words to that general effect. Needless to say the babies father did not take kindly to this, and we ended up turning the plane round so arsehole bloke could be removed.

Never been so glad to get home in my life.

CrotchetyQuaver · 12/01/2022 11:09

Probably our last holiday at the beginning of October which was a week in a narrow boat in the midlands, just me and my DH.

Arrived on the Friday, all good.
Saturday, anxious messages because my daughter went round to see my DDad and found he'd fallen (first time ever, well that we know about anyway when he couldn't get himself up).

Sunday other DD phoned as Dog vomits blood in the evening so needs a vet trip
Monday uneventful other than a big thunderstorm overhead and we got absolutely soaked although thankfully not struck by lightning
Tuesday My DDads GP surgery phone me to check he went for his CT scan. I assure them he would have done, as my brother had come back to take him to it. Shit I think, what the hells going on, the surgery never phone unless it's bad news.
Wednesday DD2 pops over again to see my DDad and her uncle, finds Grandad looking very yellow and phones me to find out what to do. I tell her to call his surgery. GP ends up phoning me, fesses up his blood test results were highly abnormal and in a very guarded way says pancreatic cancer is suspected but can't be confirmed until they've received results of the CT scan done earlier in the week. Cue long phone conversation with my not so DB to fill him in on the situation. By this point I'm chainsmoking and drinking a fair amount of alcohol which I wouldn't normally do.
Thursday I wake up and announce to my DH I want to get home ASAP. He says fine OK. Off we set on the boat, back to its base. I'm still chain smoking from worry and being powerless to help back home. Brother messages to say frailty service have rocked up at DDads house and are measuring up for toilet frames etc. Then a message saying they have been summoned to a face to face appointment with GP at 4pm. Fuck fuck fuckity fuck... Return to boatyard, I've calmed down a bit by now and we decide to stay there, have a glass or two of vino and go for a curry and get off boat in the morning as originally planned.
Further message late afternoon/teatime, yes it's pancreatic cancer spread to his liver so very bad. NotsoDB advises he needs to leave tomorrow lunchtime and dads probably best not left in his own. No worries I say, already agreed with my lovely DH that I'm going straight there once we get back and staying as long as needed so he's not on his own.

Friday (8/10) get back to DDads, frailty nurse on the drive, have a quick chat and ask her how long she thinks he has. About 6 weeks is the reply OMG, that's a sucker punch. Go in to see Dad.

Dad died peacefully in the local hospice (less than 48 hours after admission) on 19/10. He was still smiling and chatting and pain free until the day before he died.

I'm still reeling and trying to process it all.

A memorable holiday for all the wrong reasons!

Hoping this years boat trip we are currently planning will be a much happier affair...

hannahbeth · 12/01/2022 11:15

@Aposterhasnoname

Dom rep. Birthday trip. 2010. Are you sitting comfortably. This is long.

Got to the airport to be told the flight is delayed by a couple of hours, then a couple more, then a couple more. We were told the problem was they couldn’t open the hold doors to remove the previous passengers luggage. Eventually it got close to the point where they would have to put us in a hotel, so they said they had got permission to fly with the luggage still on board. Great. We boarded, got settled, then the captain announced the hold door had opened, so now they had to unload it. Another delay, crammed on the plane exhausted after sitting in an airport for about 16 hours. Just what we needed.

Finally set off and arrived at the hotel, which seemed nice enough, and settled down by the pool. Within minutes, it clouded over and the heavens opened. No problem, we’re all inclusive, let’s hit the bar, with all the rest of the hotels guests, who proceeded to get increasingly drunk, loud, and lairey. All entertainment was cancelled due to the weather, including the indoor show. But no matter, they put some music on. The lyrics of which included, if “you’re scared mother fucker go to church”. These lyrics were repeated with gusto, by all the guests, eventually including the children.

Got up the next day, still raining. So we repeated the day before. Next day, still raining, repeat the day before. Next day. Still raining.,, you get the idea. We tried to book a trip to break the endless cycle of get up, sit in the bar, go to bed, but they were all cancelled.

This went on for five days. Then the morning of my birthday arrived. It rained, so we sat in the bar all day! Again. By teatime we were more than a touch inebriated, so decided to go to the room for a nap. Got up and the whole world seemed to shake. Decided we definitely needed a nap and went to the room, and put on the telly. News reports of a massive earthquake in Haiti, and tsunami warnings for the dom rep. We were in a ground floor beachfront apartment! So we went to reception to ask what to do, blank looks all round. Decided along with most other guests (and don’t forget, we’d all been drinking pretty solidly for a week, to get to higher ground. Fortunately there was a large hill right beside the hotel so we all trooped up there, in the pouring rain, ankle deep in mud, where we all stood around like lemons for about an hour before squelching back to the bar!

Get up the next day to hear that most of the staff had family in Haiti and were understandably devastated and worried sick, so the atmosphere was terrible. The sun actually came out the day after the quake, and stayed for the rest of the week, but no one was in the holiday mood after seeing the terrible things that were happening just a short distance away.

Was delighted to leave, and get on the plane to go home. Waiting to take off a baby was screaming non stop. The pilot announced we were waiting for medics to check the poor little chap was ok to fly. So delayed again. They got on, and said he was good to go, but he continued screaming. We set off and took off, but a chap behind the baby had been very vocal about it annoying him. As soon as we took off he started yelling “shut that fucking brat up or I’ll do it for you” or words to that general effect. Needless to say the babies father did not take kindly to this, and we ended up turning the plane round so arsehole bloke could be removed.

Never been so glad to get home in my life.

Oh my god!!!!!!
Aroundtheworldin80moves · 12/01/2022 11:33

Never had a truly nightmare holiday, but have had bad things happen. DH broken his foot on the first day of our honeymoon. He also got food poisoning one day, and was attacked by a turtle another day. (Honestly!). Weve lost our car keys on a family holiday in the UK. I've been stuck in a remote village during a hurricane watching CNN reporting on terrorist attacks in London near where both my parents and brother worked. Nearly caught up in a coup. Lost in the Alps during heavy snow.

This makes it sound like we are walking disaster magnets!

MarleneDietrichsSmile · 12/01/2022 11:36

I have had many many shit holidays Grin

Travelling through Mexico with DH and DS, First Hotel was awful (pool water was black and full of leaves), restaurant was closed, we walked into town which was grim (Merida) and DS (2) got really sick in the middle of the street, ended up in hospital. We moved to a different hotel, very smart but when we opened the curtains there were no windows. DS still poorly and asleep by 6pm every evening, DH and I spent 3 evenings in the bathroom, me sitting in the empty bath and him on the loo seat, drinking from the minibar, trying to book an earlier flight home.

On the way home we had massive turbulence and we were all throwing up. Toddler DS had diarrhoea incident I threw DS' trousers in the bin of the airport (they were beyond) , and he walked around in just his diapers and a t-shirt

Then they lost our luggage , and we had to file insurance claims

Fun fun fun

I have many more like this, to the extent DH says he'll never do long haul again. Ever

MarleneDietrichsSmile · 12/01/2022 11:51

I am so sorry about your dad @CrotchetyQuaver , what a shock that must have all been Sad

DanteThunderstone · 12/01/2022 11:54

Oh my word, @Aposterhasnoname

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DanteThunderstone · 12/01/2022 11:55

I'm sorry, @CrotchetyQuaver.

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underneaththeash · 12/01/2022 13:04

Ours was a skiing trip a few years ago, over New Year. They;d had a decent amount of snow 3 weeks before, but nothing since and it was incredibly icy. Hotel was supposed to be on an easy blue run - and it was sort of, but you had to ski down a step, rocky bit with trees before you got to the run. We are not good skiiers.
Three hotel guests had broken a bone or two by the following morning.

Day 2 DD(5) started with a temperature, cough, rash and by that evening it had turned into croup. No-one got any sleep and poor DD ended up on antibiotics, steriods and then gave it to DH.
Infection runs through the hotel, so many staff are ill, that they have to bus staff from other hotels.

Day 3 Ds10 falls badly on a icy slope and twists knee.

Day 4 Ds10 and I get food poisoning, along with all the other guests in the hotel who weren't in bed with the bad viral infection.

Day 7: Everyone feeling a little better, however, DD and DS1 have missed several days of skiing lessons and they won't take her back in the group. Creche full. DH and I take it in turns to ski alone.

Day 9: Fly home, we haven't skied since.
DS2 did however have a lovely trip and really enjoyed everything. I suspect, he was one of the very few people who weren't horribly ill.

Espirit gave us around 70% of our holiday costs back.

ParadiseLaundry · 12/01/2022 13:17

@Aposterhasnoname that sounds absolutely awful.

But no matter, they put some music on. The lyrics of which included, if “you’re scared mother fucker go to church”. These lyrics were repeated with gusto, by all the guests, eventually including the children

But I'm absolutely doubled over at this GrinGrinGrin

Aposterhasnoname · 12/01/2022 13:37

[quote ParadiseLaundry]@Aposterhasnoname that sounds absolutely awful.

But no matter, they put some music on. The lyrics of which included, if “you’re scared mother fucker go to church”. These lyrics were repeated with gusto, by all the guests, eventually including the children

But I'm absolutely doubled over at this GrinGrinGrin[/quote]
Thing was, with the increasingly drunk guests singing along lustily, the staff clearly thought it was a popular song and kept playing it. I’m not entirely sure they understood the lyrics Grin

PinkTonic · 12/01/2022 15:15
  1. Only ever AI which we tried because teenagers. Horrible cockroach infested allegedly 4* hotel (in the food) which we couldn’t get transferred from so spent a fortune on a hire car and eating out.
  2. Pissed down all week, every day the forecast said it would improve the next day. Ten hour delay to flight home due to lightening strike on our plane and no one available to do the necessary checks, eventually resulting in us being put on a flight to the wrong airport and then a bus. Too knackered to drive so had to book into airport hotel and never got a penny in compensation. All they gave us was a dry ham sandwich and a carton of juice.
blobby10 · 12/01/2022 16:41

Apart from family camping holidays as a teenager where it rained for a fortnight I've been really lucky. The absolute worst was two weeks on a Club 18-30 holiday when I was 23 to Corfu. I was desperate for a sunny hol and had no one to go with but hey, those holidays are great for single people to make friends aren't they? Nope. Everyone else was there with friends except the single weird man who also didn't have any friends and obv they coupled us up as much as possible. My days fell into a pattern - on the beach around 9am, under an umbrella between 11 and 2 then out in the sun again until 4pm. Went back to grotty hotel for shower, try to find something to eat at a table for one on the Kavos main road, join in with the Club18-30 evening events but always gave up and went to bed before midnight. On the plus side I got an amazing suntan and read about 10 books and never had a hangover and saw some lovely parts of the island on day excursions. Despite the sunshine it really was a very lonely and depressing holiday. Why on earth I didn't go for the week long option I will never know.

SituationCritical · 12/01/2022 17:02

When DH first started dating we went on a holiday to Wales to stay in a teeny tiny cottage. It was cheap -we were late teens and it was all we could afford.
Got there and the cottage was next door to a graveyard which was surrounded by 6ft high barbed wire. I mean it was nearly in the graveyard it was that close. The cottage was sweet and nicely decorated but it just felt bad. Nothing to do with the graveyard, it was the atmosphere. We spent most of the days out and about, but when we got to the cottage it just felt awful. The bedroom was a terrible place, an ominous feeling and I couldn't put my back to the door. It's so hard to explain, I'm no scaredy cat and not at all woo, but it was the worst place I've ever been. DH and I never discussed it while we were there at all, but I asked to leave after three days and we left early. As soon as we got into the car DH said 'that place felt awful didn't it'. The owner didn't even seem surprised we had left. It's not a patch on some of the awful holidays here but it was bloody weird!

amusedbush · 12/01/2022 17:07

Thankfully nothing truly devastating and my experiences pale in comparison to some of the stories here.

When DH and I had been together for a few months, we booked a cheap week in the Algarve. It was SHITE. The hotel was grubby and we found cockroaches in the kitchen drawer so I didn’t sleep a wink. The weather went back and forth between pissing rain and grey and overcast. The nearby restaurants were subpar tourist traps and in the end, the highlight of the holiday was paying for a coach trip to Seville for a day. It was glorious sunshine and a stunning city, I was sad to go back!

Then a few years later DH and I eloped to New York. Our flight down to London was changed at short notice, then it was late taking off and landing. We were the last ones off the plane and we only had 20 minutes to get across Heathrow, including that train between terminals. Of course our onward tickets didn’t work and had to be re-printed. Then the little train was stopped for a random security check. We were sprinting across the terminal and when we got to the gate, the woman said she had seen us land and didn’t think we’d make it. When we sat down on the plane I burst into tears. Then when we landed at JFK there was an overhead announcement for us to go to the BA office, where they told us that our cases (which had my wedding dress and DH’s suit in them) hadn’t made it onto the plane. It was the worst possible start to our wedding/honeymoon!

rifling · 12/01/2022 17:12

My first and only ski holiday. Day 1 - ok but problem with the heating in our room and it was so cold ' couldn't even snuggle up to dh as the bed had two single duvets. Day 2 - I had a skiing lesson, slipped over and fractured arm, elbow and wrist. Spent the rest of the holiday in traction, having an operation and feeling sorry for myself!

BarrowInFurnessRailwayStation · 12/01/2022 17:20

Dh and his family used to visit their late grandparents off grid place in the country. No mains electricity, water or gas Hmm there was a generator which was only put on for a few minutes in the morning. The place was damp, cold and infested with mice which ds1 was allergic to and their urine used to set his asthma off. The place was coated with a tarry substance from the grandparents burning unseasoned wood in the ancient aga and stove. It stunk to high heaven. The place was also full of old stuff.

Every day was spent trying to clean up, prepare food and then wash up whilst the menfolk would play with their chainsaws, tractor, strimmer etc. It was boring and frustrating trying to clean and heat water in pans on the stove all the time. We had to go to bed at 8pm every night because it was dark and there was nothing to do (no telly etc).

Looking back, I don't know why I did it Sad

Roselilly36 · 12/01/2022 17:50

Had a few rubbish holidays tbh. But Minorca sticks in my mind, went at the end of August, it was so hot, Spain had a heatwave, we had an apartment very close to the beach, no breeze at all. We would wallow like hippos in the freezing cold pool every morning, after a sleepless night. Ants everywhere. Crawling over the pillows and us. DH was a lot heavier then and broke a chair, well two in fact! Really pleased to go home.

catwithflowers · 12/01/2022 17:59

[quote ParadiseLaundry]@Aposterhasnoname that sounds absolutely awful.

But no matter, they put some music on. The lyrics of which included, if “you’re scared mother fucker go to church”. These lyrics were repeated with gusto, by all the guests, eventually including the children

But I'm absolutely doubled over at this GrinGrinGrin[/quote]

😂😂😂. Hilarious!!! Although your holiday sounds like a nightmare 😱

TeaStory · 12/01/2022 18:13

@Aroundtheworldin80moves please tell the turtle story!

AgeingDoc · 12/01/2022 18:15

Not as bad as many of these, but a few years ago we went to France whilst I was recovering from a badly broken leg. I was recently out of plaster but still on crutches and I had badly underestimated how far from real recovery I was. It was hotter even than usual for the time of year in the resort and my leg swelled terribly, made all the worse by some particulatly nasty mosquito bites that I had an allergic reaction to. I ended up sat in the villa on my own for long periods whilst DH took the children out to do things - not fair for their holiday to be ruined too. It was disappointing as we'd really been looking forward to it and everyone, including my physio and consultant had told me that the weather would be good for me. That might have been true if it had been more like the usual 25c, but it was well into the 30s every day.

WakeUpLockie · 12/01/2022 18:16

Centreparcs.

I just don’t get it. SO expensive, hard to leave (car is ages away). We have awesome pool, woodland, outdoor activity centre etc near our house so should have just stayed home in our comfy house. Shitty pokey chalets. Pool seemed particularly germy (more than 1 kid pooed in it). Manufactured-feeling nature. Expensive accomm, extra for activities, and then on top of that it’s self catering so you still have some mental load. Tried it twice, never again!