Tonight, after a bumpy few weeks with my husband he came home and accused me of all sorts. Out the blue. None of which is true. We’ve been married for 11 yrs and a couple since we were teens. Rather then stay and listen to his ranting and raving I packed a bag and headed to my sisters (we’ve got two kids, 16 & 13 respectively) since then he’s thrown my belongings on the garden, upset the children and told them I am no longer welcome at home. To make matters worse I work for him so it looks as is I’m out of a job too. My dilemma is where to I go from here? Do I back down, admit defeat and go in as before or try to make a new life for myself? Where to start? I have bills, commitments and two children who I don’t want to cause pain. He says he’s had enough, he can’t cope with me anymore but all I’ve ever done is tried to be a good wife, been at home, raised the kids etc etc. Any advice would be much appreciated. Sometimes coming from strangers is more helpful then the people in our everyday lives. Thanks for your time.