Kitten bought. Check out the massive red flag list below though !
No cat mum present or other kittens.
Seller’s house filthy, she’s a crazy cat lady clearly.
Seller said the cat mum wasn’t there.
Seller was virtually shoving kitten into our arms and kept saying she wants him to go today, take him, take him, despite my insisting I only came to look and ask questions before even considering purchase.
She asked £20, not a red flag, but that’s pretty cheap considering :
She hasn’t flea’d, wormed, registered or vaccinated him yet.
He weighs just under 500g which the pet shop we went to after said makes him around 6 weeks old, not 12 weeks as the kitten seller said. I’m still unsure about this though.
I later learnt you’re not supposed to flea kittens until they’re at least a kilogram weight. According to a couple of sources, then contradicted by another source ! So you can see why I also came here for real people’s expert advice!
My mother came with us and she has decades of cat experience, and despite all the above making me not want to have the kitten, she just took it to her house now, so I’m assuming she just wanted to get it away from there.
We’ve been to see him and he’s healthy looking, bouncy, confident and curious. Litter trained already. We plan to collect him once he’s been de-flea’d by hand (insert a spewy emoji) and the vets are open so we can get him straight there for a thorough checkover.
It feels like more of a rescue than a purchase, but either way, he’s in for a more comfortable and cleaner environment than where he’s come from, plus the kids are over the moon.
@Warmduscher that’s a fair comment. Came here for advice to avoid a bad purchase as opinions from real people (‘experts’) might help serve me better than the conflicting advice I was getting on all the rescue websites, big brand websites and so on.
We keep fish which are a far more involved and specialised pet hobby than cats so I’m not taking this lightly.
Thanks for the advice everyone, it was a bit lastminute. I had already done my research but as I said, the websites of various big name rescue centres, charities and brands were contradicting eachother, so somebody was ‘wrong’, hence preferring advice from real people online.