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How do you fall asleep? Silence? Noise?

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Borisjohnsonshairbrush · 16/12/2021 22:44

Just this ..

Having an anxious episode tonight and falling asleep will be very hard for me so it's headphones in and I'll put on "friends" "will and grace" or a comedy with canned laugher, shut my eyes and try and drift off.

I can hardly bare the silence. Anyone else have a certain sleep style?

I also need a pillow between my legs and a really soft well worn sheets I hate brand new sheets....

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OfMinceAndMen · 17/12/2021 22:21

I like to either fall asleep listening to an asmr video on YouTube (and then the adverts wake me up!), or with ear plugs in which generate a sort of 'white noise' inside my ears. I'm not a good sleeper 😒

Agadorsparticus · 17/12/2021 22:22

Silence and pitch black. I usually have no trouble sleeping but lately I've been waking anywhere from 2-4am and been unable to get back to sleep so I'm on strong sleeping tablets which do the trick.

ParkingDiagram · 17/12/2021 22:24

A soundtrack of wave sounds or mountain stream for 45 minutes to help us drop off. Works a treat.

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Itwasgoodwhileitlasted · 17/12/2021 22:29

Dark and silent. Asleep in about 3 minutes. Interesting, I was a crap sleeper when I was young.

Davros · 17/12/2021 22:38

Audiobooks but only something very familiar overnight, otherwise it's over stimulating

Monkeytennis97 · 17/12/2021 22:42

Podcasts- What's your Problem, Monkey Tennis, For the Many

YouTube- Bailey Sarian

Any Alan Partridge

LBC- Clive Bull in particular

batmanladybird · 17/12/2021 22:43

I was reading about this. Apparently seeking sensory input isn't unusual. I listen to podcasts or radio plays

HelloDulling · 17/12/2021 22:44

Old eps of The Archers, bed entirely to myself, window slightly open.

Toplowlight · 17/12/2021 22:46

A familiar audiobook on just loud enough to hear. Distracts me from my thoughts but doesn’t engage me too much.

Terminallysleepdeprived · 17/12/2021 22:48

I suffer horrific anxiety and cannot bear silence. It suffocated me.

I have to have noise, not loud and nothing i will engage in. Crime channel does wonders. Stick it on quietly, snuggle down and eventually fall asleep

WeeHaggisFace · 17/12/2021 22:52

I go to sleep in silence unless I'm struggling with anxiety and then I either listen to music or rainstorm sounds.

My littlest DD ask alexa for "relaxing classical music" to go to sleep. Makes me laugh as I much prefer a bit of rock Grin

WeeHaggisFace · 17/12/2021 22:54

Monkeytennis97 I love Bailey's murder mystery and makeup.

Vapeyvapevape · 17/12/2021 23:01

I have ptsd from an rta and one of the things that haunts me is the silence after all the metal and glass stopped smashing and grinding so I have to have some noise in order to sleep. I listen to court cases on YouTube and if I’m feeling extra anxious I always listen to one particular one.

colouringindoors · 17/12/2021 23:06

I use the Calm app - Sleep stories. Soooo good. They're mainly about 30 mins long. It's rare I'll get to the end of one. If you have it I recommend Erik Braa, Anna Acton and Matthew McConnaughey 😍

JSL52 · 17/12/2021 23:10

[quote CalmConfident]**@floppybit* @Megan2018* @JSL52

Another rain fan here…I listen to the Rain episode on BBC sounds sleepscapes. I am off into sleep in moments. Only the rain works….the waves version make me anxious and alert ![/quote]
Ooh I like waves in real life. Might have a listen.

lollipoprainbow · 17/12/2021 23:14

Pitch black Darkness and silence for me please !

Stroopwaffle5000 · 17/12/2021 23:16

I've been using the show Friends to get to sleep for the past 20 years so no, you're not odd. How I Met Your Mother and The Big Bang Theory are also good ones. What is a bit morbid is that I also like to listen to True Crime YouTube videos to get me to sleep 🤣

Borisjohnsonshairbrush · 17/12/2021 23:17

I've FT'd an acquaintance today and she has had the best intro to a deep sleep just listening to her new husky pup snoring in his bed next her.

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Limegreentangerine · 17/12/2021 23:19

A crime documentary! Emma Kenny is good!

PrincessPaws · 17/12/2021 23:31

I have to be in the recovery position, facing right (towards the edge of the bed), near an open window and in pitch black and as near to silence as a snuffling husband will allow. Once I'm out, you could parade a brass band through the room, but any chink of light would wake me up!

SlaveToTwoTabbyCats · 17/12/2021 23:35

I have tinnitus - I can only fall asleep listening to an audiobook. And I'm very fussy about the narrator!

Mulhollandmagoo · 17/12/2021 23:38

Luckily, me and my husband are the same, completely dark and completely silent, our DD (2) needs a nightlight and some sort of soft noise to sleep though, either white noise or piano music

effervescance · 17/12/2021 23:52

I'm astounded so many people sleep with electronic aids or noise.

Just total quiet and darkness is bliss for me

ChiefWiggumsBoy · 19/12/2021 16:37

I have tinnitus

Me too! It wasn't until we moved that I realised how bad it was. It's SO quiet in our room that I genuinely thought there was an alarm going off somewhere - no, just your ears

Luckily I can mostly tune it out. I had pulsatile tinnitus really badly a few years ago, that I couldn't sleep through. ENT couldn't offer me any help though unfortunately.

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