Anyone develop an intense crush as an adult?!

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How do you get a grip?

I watched a series with a very handsome looking man in and can't stop googling him and looking at pics.

Someone told me off earlier for something and I felt like he was watching me. I felt all embarrassed

I'm a married woman with 2 DC....

Oh I do this all the time with various actors and actresses I've learnt to just enjoy the feeling and try not to get too invested. DP and I are both bisexual and we enjoy discussing various celebrity crushes and admiring the pretty people together! Btw I googled squid game park and he's very handsome

I have massive crushes on Chris Hemsworth and Jenson Ackles - so beautiful

@EBearhug

Oh my work crush is my age, too. And looks quite good on Zoom.

Sigh. Agreed. And also in a tux as I discovered recently.

Oh gosh I've got a few 😊🤦‍♀️

@BrightonOrLancaster Ohhh I loved him in The Tudors very sexy indeed

The squid game crush has got me into a bit of a rabbit hole 🕳 I am now watching another Korean series

What's up with the Koreans lack of ageing? They all seem to have such good skin and don't age! My crush on here is 40 but I'd never have guessed at all. The lead for squid game is 50... it was filmed less than 18 months ago

My crushes are always people I meet in real life! So that can get a bit awkward!

My user name gives it away...

No he was someone who used to be fun but is now a sanctimonious twat. But he did give me his maroon and blue football shirt.

Now I've got Aston Villa in my head and thinking Prince William, Gareth Southgate or Dion Dublin.

Not Aston.. More South.

West Ham?

Started watching Long Way Up the other day. Ewan McGregor is the most perfect looking person on the planet. I know he's a shit and I don't care, look at him!

Mines a really odd one. It’s someone at work. I’m happily married and he’s actually really odd. I think if in reality I spent anytime with him I would dislike him. But he’s good for a fantasy and I cheer up when he is very very rarely in.

[quote Leftbutcameback]@grooveonthemove that sounds like it brightened up your day!![/quote]
Oh it did! There's some ridiculous pheromoney thing going on - on Thursday he left without his jacket and had to come back for it; he then declared 'You make me like crazy in the head' in his lovely Greek accent 😅

I've got an intense crush on one person other than my DH, that I've had for years. He's the object of my fantasies. And he's not even alive anymore but that doesn't stop me.

Serj Tankian
Adam Hills
Lee Jung-Jae
Lin Manuel Miranda
Giovanni Pernicci

I have more but there is my starter for ten...

DH has a list too I'm sure

I've literally got the biggest crush on Derek Shepherd!!!

Honestly I've only watched greys anatomy the whole way through once, watching it from the start again now but I have so many dreams about him when I'm watching it 😂

Ahh I think he's amazing 😍

I've had a crush on Giles the Librarian for 20 years. DH is very understanding.

Ooh i thought the detective in squid games was lovely, very striking looking

Actually DH started out as my crush, we worked together at the time.

I went through a serious Shaun Evans phase during Vigil. Spent hours watching Endeavour wondering wtf it was all about but fancying the shit out of Morse.

How have we got this far without anyone mentioning Jamie Dornan?

The good/bad news is he's very similar looking to my friend's husband. Who I've always known is good looking but never fancied. I mentioned the resemblance to DH and he agreed. Now I feel I can't say I fancy Jamie Dornan without DH thinking I fancy my friend's husband. Which I don't!

I have a wank over George Harrison at least once a day.

Also Chris Hemsworth who I've fancied since he was Kim in Home and Away.

I am late 40's and have had an intense crush on somebody for a year now - I have always fantasized a lot from a very young age and the fact he is the main star in them at the moment seems to intensify the crush

I have spent many an hour looking at videos of him on YouTube and photos on the internet - bit ridiculous at my age I know but there is just something about him.

Have seen him in live shows twice in the last few months - sooo hot