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Anyone know anything about CMS claims?

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ohshootreally · 04/12/2021 10:27

I finally decided to bite the bullet and make a claim through CMS yesterday for direct pay. Ex and I separated almost seven years ago and have 3 DC who never stay overnight at his, he barely sees them tbh (his choice) and he pays next to fuck all. When he does pay it’s incredibly irregular and he always makes me ask for the money, I think it’s a method of control of kinds. I have to ask and then I’m often met with excuses about him not having been paid yet and that he doesn’t know when he will be paid. This week it was that he’d been massively underpaid so could only send me half this week and half next week. I don’t believe this for one second, he’s a retail store manager so his wages will be consistent.

Anyway, I took the plunge and sent the application off. I inputted all of his contact details including address, workplace and phone number which I’m hoping speeds the process up a little. I’m just wondering if anyone has any experience with CMS and if so, how quickly would they typically make first contact with him? Thank you.

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Hen2018 · 04/12/2021 10:34

They’re terrible.

My ex stopped work the second he was asked for money. He’s worked cash in hand for 17 years now.

Bollindger · 04/12/2021 10:35

He will get a letter next week. It usually is quick for first contact.
I think it changed from how it was in my day, but if he refuses to pay in the end it can just be taken direct from his wages and if need be this can be done via court, and he can't get out of paying. It is back dated to the date of your claiming, not anything he owed you.
Please do not give in to his I will pay, let the agency do it.
Also he can't hide how much he really earns this way.

comfortablyfrumpy · 04/12/2021 10:44

I have recently put in a claim.

It has all been set up with a payment plan - from me putting in a claim to him being given payment schedule has taken just a few weeks.

Mine was insisting he was only liable for x, the CMS calculator said Y so I put in the claim. He has been told he has to pay Y. If he does t pay it according to the schedule I will get CMS to take it from him, and they will charge him 20%. I think that will be enough incentive for him to comply.

Good luck.

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ohshootreally · 04/12/2021 10:48

I don’t know how much my ex earns which doesn’t help so I can only estimate how much I think he’d earn doing the job he does and it does seem like he’s underpaying. The thing that concerned me was the fact they go on his salary over the past 12 months apparently and I know he was furloughed during the lockdown so I don’t know how that will effect the overall amount.

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ohshootreally · 04/12/2021 10:49

*Affect.

I’m worried he’ll end up having to pay less but I doubt it and I’m just glad I won’t have to chase anymore. I’m glad it went through quickly for you guys.

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Bollindger · 04/12/2021 12:50

The not having to chase for money , is so worth it.

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