Dh just woke me up

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I have been on earliest. Which means up at half four. Tidy house, coffee, shower etc then 1 hr commute. 10 hr shift. 1 hour commute home. Was so exhausted yesterday I felt asleep on the couch and woke late at 5.15 this morning. Then rushed out to work.
I start later tomorrow but was tired so went up at around 9.
Dh has just walked into the bedroom with bloody Christmas songs blaring. Then put phone (and music) ON THE BED and walked out to do something Then back in to find me awake.
He said he didn't mean to wake me, disn t out the lights on. Apparently had turned the music down.
I am now wide awake with one of the biggest trading days of the year tomorrow. When I don't finish till gone 9, then of course drive home again. So don't estimate I will be home before half ten.

And when I say start later, I will still leave the house tomorrow around 7.30/8.

Get off Mumsnet and try to get back to sleep.

Then cuss him out tomorrow. But for now - SLEEP!!

That would piss me off. Bloody selfish.

My SIL does things like that. Stomps about and shuts doors really loudly while we're all asleep and is then surprised that people wake up.

Thing is, if you dwell on how angry it's making you it'll be harder to get to sleep. Send DH to the sofa!

Is he normally completely inconsiderate or worse, deliberately unpleasant to you? Because if he knew you were asleep that post reads like he deliberately woke you up.

Try to sleep now but don't be quiet tomorrow morning. It will be his turn to be woken up the selfish ducker. Does he have previous for this sort of behaviour?

I think he was just completely oblivious.
I average around 6 hours sleep a night then crash on one if my days off, using it to mostly sleep. He wfh so knows this. (It's a school day, so get up at 6 with dd, get all dc oubthe door, sleep, then awake by the time they are home)
I am literally wide awake. Alway have trouble getting back to sleep.
Just venting I suppose!

I'd be very annoyed! How could he not realise you'd wake up?

I would be insisting on my room after that he could sleep on the couch if no spare bed elsewhere

Oh I’d be livid if I were you!! I’m the same, can’t get back to sleep once I’m woken, adrenaline is rushing and I just can’t relax again. I work nights and sometimes get woken by the doorbell etc, makes me so mad! My kids and DP know better though. He learned early in our relationship that waking me up doesn’t only ruin my day, but his too!

Hope you get back to sleep ASAP - decaf

Fart on his leg. They never like that.

I'd tell him to fuck off out of the bedroom and find somewhere else to play his shit music. God I hate it when people do this