I’m due my second baby next year and I’ve brought some nice little rompers. One in particular is rainbow print with ‘my little rainbow’ on the front.
A close friend asked in a group chat I’m in why I hadn’t told them about losing a baby and as were friends there all their to talk which then got the others asking questions and it’s come from the fact I’ve brought this rainbow romper?
I’m not oblivious, I’m aware of the term ‘rainbow baby’ and it’s meaning.. but I haven’t suffered a loss and said as such after she explained why she thought I had. Then she messaged me privately to ask why I brought it if I hadn’t suffered a loss as I’ll probably get ‘hate’ for it if I haven’t lost a baby(?!?!) She just thought it was a bit inconsiderate and that another friend (also in group chat) agreed (so they’ve obviously talked about it not to me as well as as she was private messaging at this point 
Now I feel a bit taken back, maybe a little bit embarrassed or self conscious that people will know I haven’t lost a baby but am ‘appearing’ too by having this rainbow romper and I’m not sure whether to return it.
I didn’t really think anything of it when I brought it at all, I just loved the print and my daughters room is rainbow themed but nothing ever came about with that?! - but now it’s been mentioned I’m not sure what to think. Is it considered inconsiderate? Should I return it? So I just need to be less bothered about what people may think? I don’t want people to assume I’ve suffered a loss when I haven’t as I find that more disrespectful to those who have.. but equally does this mean I can never dress the kids in rainbows?! 