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I need to resign today but there's a problem - help!

36 replies

Lizzie523 · 19/11/2021 08:00

I found a job through a recruiter and after the process I have been offered the job. I negotiated a better salary but said I want to see the overall package.

The recruiter said he would send the offer letter by close of play yesterday but I've received nothing. Just emailed this morning and got an on annual leave response!

I would need to resign today to start when they want me. I have the details of the hiring manager who interviewed me. Should I just email him directly?

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Coffeetree · 19/11/2021 08:02

Yeah just say what you said here!

overthethamesfromyou · 19/11/2021 08:05

If they don't get you the offer letter in time, they can't expect you to start on their preferred date.
Please don't resign without it.

Nilbog · 19/11/2021 08:06

Has the recruiter left an alternative contact in their ooo message @Lizzie523?

Or could you call the main number of the recruitment firm and explain?

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Vapeyvapevape · 19/11/2021 08:07

Yes I would contact them directly.

Lizzie523 · 19/11/2021 08:11

@Nilbog there is an alternative email contact but time is short and what if they don't have a clue about it etc?

We finish early afternoon today so I'm left with hardly any time both to receive this letter and actually resign.

Perhaps I will just contact them directly AND email the alternative person?

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Alonelonelylonersbadidea · 19/11/2021 08:11

Good plan! Do both!

Doubledoorsontogarden · 19/11/2021 08:12

Call the recruiter and email the new line mgr

Doubledoorsontogarden · 19/11/2021 08:13

The alternative recruiter should now, or at least have access to records regards your job.

CherryRedDMs · 19/11/2021 08:14

Email the recruiter ccing the hiring manager explaining politely that if you receive the offer letter by e.g. noon (or whenever works for you), you will be able to start on their preferred date, but otherwise your possible start date will be x.
The recruiter may respond anyway, many people do a few mails on a day off.

Bluntness100 · 19/11/2021 08:15

Do not resign till you get it on writing. Email the alternate contact.

aLittleL1fe · 19/11/2021 08:18

What @CherryRedDMs said. I'm a manager and this kind of thing happens fairly often. People plan to start on date x but paperwork isn't ready so they start on day z.

AdoraBell · 19/11/2021 08:18

As pp have said, don’t resign until this is sorted and contact both parties.

timeisnotaline · 19/11/2021 08:20

Absolutely do not resign without having signed new contract! You will just have to start at a later date, happens all the time.

Lalliella · 19/11/2021 08:21

Email them both and explain exactly what happened. They may wish to rethink their use of this recruiter after such a bad error. Tell them that you can’t resign until you’ve got the offer letter.

NovemberNovemberDarkNights · 19/11/2021 08:24

I would email the alternative contact first. Give them until 10 & then contact the hiring manager if you haven't heard from the recruitment company.

Good Luck!!

Lizzie523 · 19/11/2021 08:27

I will probably do this @NovemberNovemberDarkNights

The issue is that I'm going to left with no time to actually pull my boss aside to resign in the end. All very stressful!

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Polmuggle · 19/11/2021 08:36

@Lizzie523

I will probably do this *@NovemberNovemberDarkNights*

The issue is that I'm going to left with no time to actually pull my boss aside to resign in the end. All very stressful!

Do you feel you want to do it in person? Otherwise you could just email later on today as long as it's still 'today'!
Lizzie523 · 19/11/2021 08:59

@Polmuggle. To be honest not really.

I wanted to offer them the courtesy of in person notice but it may not be possible.

Do you think it would be considered rude to just email?

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LucentBlade · 19/11/2021 09:10

Surely you need to resign in writing anyway. Don’t worry your leaving :) but don’t do a thing till you get your new contract.

CherryRedDMs · 19/11/2021 09:25

Yes, unless they already have an idea that you are leaving it would be rude to just email in most places.

GhoulWithADragonTattoo · 19/11/2021 09:54

Is there a phone number for recruitment firm. Probably be easier to ask for quick reply by phone.

girlmom21 · 19/11/2021 09:57

I'd email if you need to - if the contract comes through after you finish today.

Alternatively you could just phone them after work and let them know, if you really wanted to do it personally.

cluecu · 19/11/2021 10:48

Definitely call the recruitment company. If their team or boss finds out that a placement might not happen then that affects their financial so they will certainly want to resolve this. The recruiter themselves would face a bollocking as well as losing their commission and rightly so.

I worked in recruitment a few years ago and that is very bad form on the recruiter. If you don't get anywhere after a couple of hours then contact the company directly.

WomenTalkingAboutARevolution · 19/11/2021 11:34

Please don’t resign until you have seen the letter. It’s not unknown for offering companies to hold back on precise details until you’ve resigned so you are in a weaker negotiating position

CherryRedDMs · 19/11/2021 11:45

I personally wouldn’t want to burn bridges at a former employer by resigning after normal working hours by email. If you’re in a professional job it’s irrelevant that you won’t be working there any more, people in a field talk to one another.

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