My DD (3) is receiving an award next week from her disability provider for her improvements in communication and I am stumped on what to wear. They say smart casual but to me that means smart jeans and a shirt. I tend to massively overdress as well so can anyone help me strike the right balance? I am 42 and size 16. I have a lot of Pinup Girl dresses but just don't know if they will be ok. I am very unsure of myself.