Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Chat

Join the discussion and chat with other Mumsnetters about everyday life, relationships and parenting.

Dd friend issue - threes a crowd.

1 reply

bluebellYellow · 05/11/2021 07:20

My dd is 10 and has two friends who she usually plays with at school. Recently I feel like my dd is being pushed out of the group and is the extra friend iyswim.

I will call the other children A and B.

From what I've seen, when my dd is with child A child B will always join in and start chatting to child A not my daughter. Child A and B do things out of school but my dd is never invited. Apparently they discuss it at school but it's never including dd. I have arranged them to both come over to our house but because child A couldn't make it, child B said she didn't want to come over.

My dd and child A used to be friends before they played with child B. Dd insists she likes child B but I'm not sure if child B likes my dd.

My dd is often left to walk into school alone as A and B stick together and run off. She sometimes runs after them but it is frustrating as they never wait. If my dd and child A are walking in my dd will always wait if they see child B on her way.

I wish dd would make new friends but she is in a small class with majority of boys. (Apparently the girls don't play with the boys unless they like football)

Is there anything I can do or say to help this situation? Or would it be best to let dd sort it herself?

OP posts:
Lonoxo · 06/11/2021 20:51

Does your DD have friends outside of school? How long until she starts secondary school?

New posts on this thread. Refresh page