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How to get over break up!!

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Rach1721 · 18/10/2021 13:59

I've been with my partner for 5 years and we have a 2.5 year old together!

We went out this weekend for our 5 year anniversary, the first time we've had a night out together since having our son.

We was both drunk and had an argument things got a bit physical. I pushed him he pushed me. He broke the tv and stuff like that.

He cheated on me with someone he used to work with when our son was 5 months old and I chose to stay with him. Anyway noticed he's been texting some woman at work recently. Nothing bad but it got my back up a bit and the argument turned into that. He said he wished he slept with the girl he cheated on me with, he says I'm dead to him now. There is just no coming back from this.

It's so hard though, like I want to cry but I can't get it out. I have to stay strong for our son. He's still in the house but he says he's moving out Friday.

I just need some advice on how to deal with this. As much as what he's done is bad he's the love of my life, he has been since I was 14 years old. It's just really hard 😞

OP posts:
sourrain · 18/10/2021 16:23

How horrible for you, I really feel for you. You say he's the love of your life but would the love of your life cheat on you? No.

Focus on yourself and your son, spending time with friends and family, doing things you want to do. Allow yourself to be sad and grieve for the relationship but know when it gets too much. But really, there's no quick fix in terms of getting over someone. It comes with time. Good luck

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