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Need to get away from PA husband....

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rainbowsonthehorizon · 15/10/2021 10:44

Currently "existing" in an awful life with husband who just can't stop with the passive aggressive behaviour. I really am way past the end of my tether and need to get me and my DD away from this sad awful life. Having followed some threads of here I would describe him as the Water Torturer type. My life has been so awful for so long and it's detrimentally affecting every area my life. I really can't allow this life to be an example for my beautiful DD. I have no family and only a handful of friends who live nowhere near. Have not long moved to a new area where I don't know anyone. Living in the SW and can't afford to buy a house here on my own. I can't afford to pay £180k for a 2 bed house but have no idea where to even look. DD is in a nice school here and I am so so sad to have to move her again but I can't see any other way around this. My head is so mashed with all his PA behaviour and subtle mind games I just feel so down and unable to move forwards.

I'm looking to move out asap but rentals around here as basically impossible to find. Does anyone have any suggestions of a nice area I can move to with my budget?

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rainbowsonthehorizon · 15/10/2021 10:45

That should say I can afford to buy a house for £180k.

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NannyGythaOgg · 15/10/2021 12:16

A lot depends on how far you are prepared to move. In parts of Yorkshire and the North East you can get a very nice 3 bedroom house.

I would suggest going on RightMove and putting in areas that you are attracted to and your budget and see what is available. Keep widening the area until properties start to come up that meet your needs.

Alternatively if you would prefer to stay as local as you can. put your own area in and just keep on increasing the distance from there you are prepared to travel again until suitable properties come up.

headspin10 · 15/10/2021 12:20

It sounds like you've made a really good decision. It will be so great to have your own place! Good luck ♥️

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