Having children after 38? Please talk to me, does it take ages? Is it largely impossible rather than easy?

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38, newly single. Not had fertility check and can’t for the next few months as working abroad. I did have brief check many years ago and was told it looked normal for my age. Whatever that meant (wasn’t full check). I just want to know some real stories about trying after this age? Does it take ages?

I’m terrified. I want a family and feel like it’s all over.

Wishing you good luck with whatever you decide; the desire for a child can be so strong. I conceived easily at 37.5, sadly did not work out but hoping I will be as lucky soon at 38.

...btw I think you can do lots of fertility tests at home/order kits etc? My gp was able to run basic ones for me but I know that can be luck of the draw/GP’s mood that day...

Hi ladies, some really positive stories.

I'm 38, ttx baby no2 after a miscarriage. My period is a week late (not pregnant) and wondering if its perimenopause. Did any of you deal with this and managed to get pregnant?