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Anyone awake and fancy a night watch thread?

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Bookridden · 11/10/2021 22:27

I'm awake because I'm pretty unwell with Covid. I've been sleeping much of the day to aid recovery, so now of course I'm wide awake! Anyone else struggling to sleep?

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BertieTheBungalow · 12/10/2021 02:10

@TheChosenTwo thank you for the info - I will take a look before I get in the taxi!

@daisydalrymple I thought I'd managed a lift off my brother but he's been held up at work so taxi it is as I don't know anyone else who is up at this time. I don't have a normal taxi I use as it's not often I use them but will get a hospital trusted one

drumandhake · 12/10/2021 02:46

@alwaysscared sending hugs, it's hard I know. DD is an anxious little bean too, cries at every school drop off, new place, noisy place. It's so strange how when they were three all the kids were like that and then they get to 7 and it feels very lonely. Had an email from school today which mentioned 'various interventions' and it all felt real again. No one can prepare you for being told that your beautiful child will have it harder and will struggle. Everytime I'm told by someone I feel that cold chill down by spine all over again. I just want to take them both and run away somewhere that we can just be happy and free.

romdowa · 12/10/2021 02:48

I'm 36 weeks pregnant, woke to pee and now I've leg cramps and can't get comfortable enough to go back to sleep!

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Rosiiiiie · 12/10/2021 02:53

21 weeks pregnant- got woken up by my stomach. I’m absolutely ravenous at the moment. Bub must be having a growth spurt.

Lollypop701 · 12/10/2021 02:56

18 yo idiot son set alarm off going for a drink. He’s asleep… but I’m going to wake him up when I have to get up at 8am…….. s

PineappleSun · 12/10/2021 03:17

I'm up feeding my newborn, probably up for the day now 😑

CantThinkOfaUserNameAgain · 12/10/2021 03:22

Awake here too. DP in hospital having his second operation in a week to Remove cancer.
Tests showed possible lymph node involvement yesterday so they are coming out too.

Feeling sad and worried and reflecting on how much our lives have changed in the space of a few days.

I had a very abusive marriage and met DP after my divorce. He is the sweetest kindest man and we are so happy together. Praying that this happiness and life won’t be taken away from us.

YukoandHiro · 12/10/2021 03:47

Yea had a rubbish fortnight - baby DD was hospitalised for a few days and took ages to pull through her illness, she's finally back to her old self and now elder DD has a cold and her asthma is terrible, I've been up with her on and off all night and I think I need to keep her home from school tomorrow to rest. Meanwhile I have loads of deadlines and a hospital appt of my own tomorrow. I need sleep so bad but I just can't get any.

ohmyitshorrible · 12/10/2021 04:26

I've been awake since three. I suffer with severe anxiety. Been lying here sobbing for the past hour.

Recently started a new job and probably need to talk about how my
Mental Health is affecting me.

Silkieschickens · 12/10/2021 04:36

Sorry to those who are ill / looking after about anxious children and hope your DPs operation is successful/helps beat the cancer CantThinkOfaUserNameAgain that must be so difficult.

Hope you got home safely Bertie Hospitals normally have a taxi number they can give you, very late to kick you out but can't say I'm surprised.

I am awake here, often awake as peri-menopause. Am just sorting bills and accounts out as we have lots of work being done over next couple of weeks by electrician, plumber and carpenter including a new boiler, hot water tank out and new plugs and spur in and kitchen changed to integrate 2 units. Have whole day ahead of sorting house as they will be in every room in the house and need access to all the radiators, the kitchen, the boiler room, the hot water tank room so need to make it clean and tidy and move things from the kitchen. But good its getting done.

Then we have the 6.30-7.45am battle with teen DD to get to school on time, one which we normally lose. Silkiecat also wants DH now and he is asleep.

YodaiamsaidI · 12/10/2021 04:37

2nd night up with Dd because of croup/viral infection she's now settled and I'm up because the cat wanted to go out.

MrsRubyMonday · 12/10/2021 04:40

9 weeks pregnant, had a headache all day yesterday, woke up for the toilet and feel like my head is going to explode so struggling to get back to sleep. Going to try and drink a load of water and see if that helps at all, my mouth seems dry so might be a bit of dehydration not helping.

GreeboIsMySpiritAnimal · 12/10/2021 05:51

Past two nights I've woken between 2-3am and been unable to get back to sleep. Think it's an anxiety issue for me. I'm worried about my health (gynae issues and I can't get an appointment till the 20th and even then it's over the phone - seems a bit pointless as a physical examination is absolutely necessary). I haven't even told DH yet as I don't want to worry him - his DM was recently diagnosed with breast cancer, so he's already dealing with that.

I'm also worried about DM, who's been unwell and barely eating for months now, and her doctor can't get to the bottom of why. Yet more tests to come, meaning I have to drive her around the county to have them. I don't mind taking her, I just find it a bit stressful.

And I'm worried about the DC's mental health. DD is autistic, in early puberty, and desperately lonely. DS is deeply sensitive and getting worn down by the relentless low-levelling bullying he's suffered from since starting school (now in Y3). The school won't do anything to support them - as far as they're concerned, they're doing well academically, so they're fine. I'm so tired of having to constantly battle them to get my kids any support.

I wish I could get up when I feel like this - get a warm drink, read a book or whatever to distract myself. But it's a small house, and we're all light sleepers, I'd inevitably disturb someone else. So I'm trapped here, Mumsnetting in the dark till the kids wake up.

alwaysscared · 12/10/2021 10:51

@drumandhake I'm sorry you are going through this too. We have his assessment tomorrow and my family are convinced he doesn't have ASD and now I'm doubting it, but then how do I get support to help him? He refuses to do anything, he has a tutor virtually 3x a week but that makes him anxious. Me trying to get him to learn on the other days is virtually impossible. I just want my happy little boy back, even though he has always been this way to some extent.

CantThinkOfaUserNameAgain · 12/10/2021 22:12

Thanks @Silkieschickens

Suspicious my lymph node removed today along with more tumour.

Now the wait begins for the results (praying for a cancer free lymph node).

My young niece (under the age of 9) has a terminal cancerous brain tumour - diagnosed in August so there have been many sleepless nights recently.

CantThinkOfaUserNameAgain · 12/10/2021 22:13

Bloody aulocorrect

Not my lymph node but DPs

Silkieschickens · 12/10/2021 23:29

CantThinkOfaUserNameAgain Hope its cancer free.

So sorry to hear about your niece, its the saddest thing when cancer hits young children.

Alwaysscared I also have a boy with suspected ASD who became very anxious over lockdown and went mute. He is 14 so older though that means GCSEs starting which is not great but mine does at least go to school though misses about 1/4 of lessons as he is too anxious and paces round. When mine was 8 he was just ending sleeping with me and I got replaced by a 4 foot panda and a 4 foot penguin which solved the sleeping issue and school also let him take teddies to school, he took 15 of them and used to line them up but got him off to school. Though obviously only if he loves teddies but something he feels comfortable with. I would say getting an EHCP would be the way forward though we had a nightmare getting one here took 3 years and we are close now just being finalised. IPSEA are very helpful and there's people on SN chat board, if you join us in Goose and Carrot thread there are others with similar children to you. Some are still out of school but are struggling a lot out mostly and there is very limited help if you don't have any EHCP. Some are at special schools, mine stayed in mainstream. LA will often refuse to assess then you have to appeal.

If school can get an ed pysch in that may help. Hope you can find a way for things to improve. Mine has started speaking again at school but very little at home still but started going out again over the summer with us so we are seeing progress but doubt he will be ready for gcses in 1.5 years but we will see.

CantThinkOfaUserNameAgain · 13/10/2021 20:38

Thank you @Silkieschickens

alwaysscared · 13/10/2021 21:40

@Silkieschickens thanks for this. I will be applying for the EHCP but we don't have a diagnosis yet so I don't know where to start.
I will check out that thread, thanks
Have a meeting with school head and tutor tomorrow so will discuss Ed psych too.

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