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Forgot DC's parents evening - where's my hair shirt...

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CourtesyFlush · 08/10/2021 08:56

DS in Year 5. Booked parents evening slot - very happy with the timing (it's usually a scrum). Wrote it on the family calendar. Forgot to check it. Forgot to turn up.

My work has gone bonkers and outside of that there is so much going on each day - ferrying the DC to so many things - this slipped through the net. Shit shit shit.

DS properly disappointed - "..but mummy we all wrote a letter to our mums and dads to talk about what we enjoyed so far this year and we put post-it notes on our work. My teacher made me put my books out in a nice pile and put my name on them..."

I apologised and talked about how I knew how much progress he was making and who his friends were etc and that at this point there wasn't much the teacher could tell me that I didn't already know, but that next term's would be more important and of course I would make sure it wouldn't happen again, but I feel absolutely awful.

I've emailed the teacher to apologise.

I mean. This ranks as a full-on parenting low doesn't it. It does, doesn't it.

DS is going to go through adulthood telling people about "that time my mum forgot to turn up to my parents evening but turned up to all my brothers' ones..."

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Siriisatwat · 08/10/2021 10:44

I did that once. Clean forgot, no excuses.

I apologised profusely to the teacher (my ds was just relieved Grin) and she really kindly offered to phone me one evening.

Things happen, don’t beat yourself up.

thehairyhog · 08/10/2021 10:46

I bet the teacher was grateful for a breather!

Aroundtheworldin80moves · 08/10/2021 10:49

I turned up on the wrong day once. Thankfully a day early. But DH had got out of work early to join me, so he wasn't impressed...

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TheGrumpyGoat · 08/10/2021 10:51

Ours are all still over the phone, I’m just amazed your school lets you over the threshold!

CourtesyFlush · 08/10/2021 15:18

Thanks all. That makes me feel a bit better and giggle. I'm hoping his teacher will give me a call but I'll understand if not.

@TheGrumpyGoat yes exactly!! The irony is that had it been Zoom based I'd likely have remembered or got an Outlook reminder!!!

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Polkadots2021 · 08/10/2021 16:56

Recreate it at home! Rope the teacher in and ask for the books and post it's. He will love it. I recreated something (can't remember what now but I felt like you about it at the time when I missed it!). It was really cool.

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