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XoYork · 06/10/2021 19:52

Hi all! Daffodil
He ghosted me when he discoverd I was pregnant (there was no problems between us he was coward who like his comfort and was scared of commitment... But now 2 years later he wanted me back. My feelings are mixed because obviously one part of me doesn't wanna except that child could potentially growing up without father and because I've met someone else who was in that period with me.
So confused. So lonely... Have no one to talk to...

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Megansx · 25/10/2021 09:56

@XoYork So sorry to read what happened. Honestly, I went through a similar situation when my now teenage daughter was an infant. Only difference is that I am bi and have a female partner (India) who has been great to me and my daughter. He came back a couple of years later,(at this point I was only beginning to see India) and I had the same exact dilemma of whether my child should grow with out a father and that too because I was dating someone else. Tbh, I think it really depends on your situation and your current partner. Can you trust him to be a good father figure to your child, if so then you have nothing to worry about it. If not, do you think the child's father is now responsible (i.e does have a good job, house, etc) ? But at the end of the day, as a single mum all I would say is we have to be both the mother and the father for our child regardless of who our partner is.

Kridik · 13/11/2021 12:52

Hi everyone just recently had taken a clear blue test i normally get my period regularly.. already have 2 kids.. took a test yesterday.. it came out faintish a little blue thing stripe line.. i thought it was a faulty test so i did another one today and the line seems to be abit noticable but still faintish.. i took x3 test before trying the digital test.. weirdest thing is once i did the digital test it said not pregnant but you can slightly see pregnant too.. yes confusing right.. 🤦‍♀️ so i pulled it apart and sure enough 2 lines 1 was faintish but you could definitely see 2 lines .. anyone experience this before.. so nervous..

And im feeling very nausea

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