Hi Op, i am Londoner who moved to Herts. I spent 20 yrs growing up in London and then 20 yrs living in /starting a family in Herts. ( Rickmansworth)
I moved to Northamptonshire 10 yrs ago ( with my now exDH). I have been made to feel unwelcome, excluded, not part of the community and it's all my fault that, i have priced locals out of buying property and i should have stayed in London.
I have spent 10 yrs largely alone as have my children. The sheer misery of living up here ended my marriage 4yrs ago , as, it was my ex's fault we moved here in the first place. I did everything i could to fit in over 10yrs, hosted much, helped at sch, i gave to the community, i helped in Pandemic. I did shopping and errands for villagers. When it was my one and only turn to isolate, not one sod could be arsed to shop for me. I actually had to have a relative travel 160 miles to help us as , not one person in this " village" could go shopping for me.
If you have lived in Northants for over 1300 yrs , it is a lovely place to live. If you have generations of relatives in the graveyard you are reet. If you are a southerner, moving here, don't waste yr time.
I am now moving back to Herts, my DC's are finished secondary. Complete waste of 10yrs and the most miserable 10yrs of mine and my children's lives. We moved here for a better life,it has been a lonely, anti southern nightmare. I helped our village ( very near Duston) throughout lockdown, not one sod helped me and my children when we had to isolate for one time. In fact, we never saw a sole for almost a year, no one in our community bothered with us. A bit like the last 10 yrs.
My village know i am moving back south now, due to them all being a bunch of cunts. The only contact/ interest i have had from my village is those wanting to buy my house for their kids who cannot afford to buy. Not one has asked, after 10 yrs of living here, where me and my DC are going.
We are going back to Herts and will never set foot in Northants again. It will always now be jct 15/16/16a on the M1 , that i drive past, while en route to the Trafford Centre.
Look elsewhere Op, this is a not a place to rebuild your life.