Am I over thinking

[Dee3540]

Hello I recently had a baby nearly 6 months ago. This maybe a bit tmi. But since then my partner hasnt said he loves me or kisses me. We have only had sx twice since our little one has been born. He never kisses me during sx. Ive pleasured him a few times and hes always finished and he's always finished the two times we have done it deed aswell. When I ask him to pleasure me he turns around and says oh god no. When I go in for a kiss he turns away and says no. Am I over reacting or should I be very concerned why he wont be intimate with me or pleasure me.

I would be concerned if it was me.

Have you spoken to him about why your sex life seems to have come to a grinding halt? It does sound worrying, and I wouldn't be happy.

Yep I'd be worried. Also why are you saying sx? You can say sex on here.

Any signs of non sexual affection?

Holding hands. Cuddle. Peck on the cheek. Pulling you to sit on his lap.Etc

Was he present at the birth? Still traumatised?

Not wanting to kiss you is a bit odd?

It sounds as if he was traumatised by seeing you give birth. You need to speak to him and find out because we’re all clearly guessing. I would be concerned though to be honest.

Why don't you look at the other thread you started on this and answer questions from people trying to help you OP?

Sorry I didn't realise people had replied on this forum. I was only replying on the other one I did. Sorry for not replying. Thank you for all help. He was present at the birth. We don't hold hands when we go out. Never kisses my cheek. All affection seems to have gone. He was present at the birth. I personally don't think he was traumatised. But maybe he was. We also dont have a lot of conversations anymore either.