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WWYD? Broken fence

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Lemonlemon88 · 26/09/2021 09:07

My friend has just bought her first home. She is sorting out the garden and asked if my partner could come and sort out an old tree stump for her. He was trying to get the last of it out and braced himself against the fence. The fence broke, a section has come away from the a main post. It's her front fence and not shared with anyone.

Partner tried to fix it but the wood is rotten and when he tried to push it back in to nail it in place, it fell apart more. Friend is obviously a bit upset about her broken fence and she has clearly been told by her mother that we should be paying to replace the fence. Partner says the fence broke because it was rotten and would have needed to be replaced anyway, he is happy to help her build a new fence but doesn't think we should pay for the materials.

What should we do in this situation? Should she make an insurance claim and we pay the excess? Should we make an insurance claim for damage to her property (I dont even know if we can?)? Should we paid for a professional to look at to make sure it definitely cant be fixed? Is it enough that he says he will build her a new fence but he doesnt feel he should pay for the materials? I really don't want to fall out but no good deed goes unpunished, does it? Should have just told her to get the professionals in when she asked if he could help her :(

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BeagleBeagled · 26/09/2021 11:54

I wouldn't have the nerve to ask him to replace the fence. Is she normally like this? Does she really want to risk a friendship? He was already saving her a lot of money. Don't help her with anything else.

Jjjayfee · 26/09/2021 12:09

Absolutely not your partner's responsibility to pay. Garden fences rot.. that's just what they do.

HarrisMcCoo · 26/09/2021 12:19

Common sense needed here by your friend OP. Fence on its way out, meaning she would be replacing it soon anyway herself. She should pay for materials and your OH can do the labour.

10yearwarranty · 26/09/2021 12:26

I think my reaction, to a "friend" would have been immediate "You're having a laugh aren't you?". And if she continued on this track I would, as others have suggested, say that I'd find out how much she would have paid a tree surgeon to do the job your partner did and she can take it out of that. And like hell would I pay anything towards the fence, or would he do any more work for her - including putting a new fence up.

SeaToSki · 26/09/2021 12:27

He could also bodge the fence back together by pounding a couple of tall (waist high) stakes into the ground just beside the post, one on each side of where the fence should be. They will hold the panel in place while she works out what she wants to replace it with and when. If it gave way with just the weight of a man leaning on it, it is very rotten and a strong wind will bring he rest of it down soon. Its also unlikely to only be rotten in one place, so even if he fixed that bit, the rest would then fall apart and him trying any fix would be like unravelling a ball of string

Notaroadrunner · 26/09/2021 12:37

@CheeseCakeSunflowers

He should tell her not to worry, although having a dangerous rotten fence in her garden could be considered a health and safety issue as he was working for her, he didn't get hurt so will not be making a claim against her. If she expects anything further I would walk away with all his tools and never return.
I'd say there would be no more mention of him fixing anything again if he mentions a claim. Is his back hurting today, or maybe he twisted his ankle when he pushed through her rotting fence?? Wink
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