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Being strategic and positive about unacceptable behaviour at work

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Coffeetree · 21/09/2021 14:00

I'm looking for another job but could use some strategies in the meantime.

I'm a lawyer. I supervise a small team but I'm not management. I feed any issues to management.

One team member has been underperforming for a while. She's had literally months of chats and weekly supervisions and paid-for training and extra admin support. It doesn't help that she gets very defensive and litigious.

At first when I raised concerns with management her response was "omg coffetree is lying and is also mean" but management had a look at her files and responded "well no your files are a mess" and she's on a performance improvement plan.

In the past couple of weeks she's 1. Literally screamed at me when I asked her to complete a certain report (and it was literally just me putting the files on a shelf near her desk and saying, "Could you fill out the xyz"), and 2. Writing long weird texts and emails to me anytime I give her some anodyne routine file reviews (everyone on my team gets periodic file reviews and they're literally like checklists and a comment along the lines of "Please do x")

Of course I'm not taking the bait and I never respond to emails etc. She cc'd management in the latest and got told off for being unprofessional.

At point point do I really put my foot down to management and tell them I cant be expected to work under these circumstances? I'm not exactly upset but it's bizarre. I mean there was just a big jolly lunch and I made (plausible) excuses because I don't feel like sharing a lovely meal with someone who has screamed at me.

I don't really have any personal feelings towards her, I think for a while I was confused as to why she kept underperforming

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RealhousewifeofBarnardCastle · 21/09/2021 14:06

Surely it’s gross misconduct? Someone with line management responsibilities needs to go down the disciplinary route: verbal warning, written warning etc etc

It’s completely unacceptable and you shouldn’t have to tolerate it

ChicChaos · 21/09/2021 14:08

How much longer has the Improvement Plan got to run? If she hasn't made any progress, what are the next steps that the partners will take? Is joint supervision - including another manager alongside you - an option at all, what reasons has she given for her performance so far (apart from the one about you lying, obviously!).

Coffeetree · 21/09/2021 14:10

Yes she has been given a written warning for the file mess.

They are clearly not interested in the other unprofessional behaviour. I mean, I can't force them and it's the reason I'm looking for a job.

I want to bring it up in terms of, "I'm not carrying out any more file reviews or supervisions with her until I understand how this is being addressed". And then they can get someone else to supervise her or fire me, who knows.

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ChicChaos · 21/09/2021 14:19

I think that getting someone else to do the supervision/reviews is fair, as for her behaviour towards you I doubt your employer will tackle this unless it affects them in some way. So you could report it when she screams for example, or record how much extra time supervising/reviewing/correcting her work is taking away from your fee earning capacity, for instance. Sadly, a financial issue might get a little more attention and that should not be the case at all.

Coffeetree · 21/09/2021 14:22

Thank you ChicChaos I can tell that you've worked in a law firm.

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ChicChaos · 21/09/2021 16:27

A similar client-charging-timesheet type of environment yes! Hope you get it sorted Flowers

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