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Has anyone ever had pure evil in their life? *Content warning*

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KittyScratch · 16/09/2021 15:02

And I mean pure evil?

I don't want to go into the history. I really don't want to go into the history of it all but it's s disgruntled estranged sibling. She is disgruntled because I didn't follow her sick and twisted narrative. She wants me to make amends and fix our broken relationship while she insults me, mocks me and shames and humiliates me. We don't share a life together but she won't leave me alone. I implemented a lot of measures like changing numbers and limiting social media. She is generally ignored. She striked yet again at contacting my employer.

I know now in my heart and soul she is evil. So so so so evil. I'm crushed and I want to die. In all my years of experiencing the abuse that she sent my way, I handled it reasonably OK. I focused on myself and my happiness. I focused on creativity and hobbies.

I don't live in the UK and in my country the law falls short at protecting people like me. The only civil action is an expensive injunction and I was quoted thousands and it can be very long and lengthy. It all depends on the other person. My solicitor said it looks as if she's some8who would enjoy the legal challenge in court thinking its an American movie. He recommended against it for the simple fact is that I don't have the means to pay out thousands and thousands and especially when I'm in a poor housing situation. The police won't help because there is no violence. I consider a mediatior - someone to step in and meet half way but the very idea of it is stomach churning because she's not able to meet another person half way.

Did anyone ever have evil in their life?
Pure evil?

OP posts:
peridito · 16/09/2021 15:18

Can you give examples of what she's done ?

ArtemisiaVulgaris · 16/09/2021 15:34

Yes, I was looked after by someone who was utterly sadistic towards me when I was a child. The things she did were vile and absolutely awful, they were also carefully premeditated. I'd say she was evil.

She punished me for biting my nails by cutting the tops of my fingers until they bled, with a knife. She told me she was going to do this prior to me leaving for school that morning, so I had all day to feel sick with worry.

She made me eat weeds out of the garden. Also, foods that had gone mouldy.

I wasn't allowed to go for a pee for long periods.

She held me under the water in the bath so I felt like I was going to be drowned.

Other things I can't write because they're so bad.

simitra · 16/09/2021 15:38

Yes, I was looked after by someone who was utterly sadistic towards me when I was a child. The things she did were vile and absolutely awful, they were also carefully premeditated. I'd say she was evil.

She punished me for biting my nails by cutting the tops of my fingers until they bled, with a knife. She told me she was going to do this prior to me leaving for school that morning, so I had all day to feel sick with worry.

She made me eat weeds out of the garden. Also, foods that had gone mouldy.

I wasn't allowed to go for a pee for long periods.

She held me under the water in the bath so I felt like I was going to be drowned.

Other things I can't write because they're so bad.

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

And the police in your country say there is nothing they can do?

Are there no voluntary bodies who can help or advise?

Aplone · 16/09/2021 15:47

@ArtemisiaVulgaris

Yes, I was looked after by someone who was utterly sadistic towards me when I was a child. The things she did were vile and absolutely awful, they were also carefully premeditated. I'd say she was evil.

She punished me for biting my nails by cutting the tops of my fingers until they bled, with a knife. She told me she was going to do this prior to me leaving for school that morning, so I had all day to feel sick with worry.

She made me eat weeds out of the garden. Also, foods that had gone mouldy.

I wasn't allowed to go for a pee for long periods.

She held me under the water in the bath so I felt like I was going to be drowned.

Other things I can't write because they're so bad.

I just want to say that am so incredibly sorry that you went through this Flowers I wish you all the best going forward xxx
custardbear · 16/09/2021 15:57

@ArtemisiaVulgaris

Yes, I was looked after by someone who was utterly sadistic towards me when I was a child. The things she did were vile and absolutely awful, they were also carefully premeditated. I'd say she was evil.

She punished me for biting my nails by cutting the tops of my fingers until they bled, with a knife. She told me she was going to do this prior to me leaving for school that morning, so I had all day to feel sick with worry.

She made me eat weeds out of the garden. Also, foods that had gone mouldy.

I wasn't allowed to go for a pee for long periods.

She held me under the water in the bath so I felt like I was going to be drowned.

Other things I can't write because they're so bad.

Goodness this is shocking, I hope you're away from this monster now! 🥺
RickOShay · 16/09/2021 15:59

@ArtemisiaVulgaris I’m so sorry for what you went through. I hope you have found peace and calm now. Flowers so sorry.

Butwhhhyyyyyyy · 16/09/2021 16:04

Artemisavulgaris I am sorry for what you went through, I went through pretty much a very similar situation growing up, how these people get away with it I don't know, loads of people knew at the time but no one says anything. It was premeditated as she was pure evil

Waitinginthewings · 16/09/2021 16:05

ArtemisiaVulgaris I'm so sorry you lived through this. I hope life is much better now or that you are on the way to life being better.

Bagstolen · 16/09/2021 16:36

I feel so awful too at what you went through ArtemisVulgaris. Can you tell the police? They really deserve to be held to account for it.

Biscoffee · 16/09/2021 17:09

And back to the OP’s situation.

Op, can you use what she did by contacting your employer in order to involve the police?

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